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Author:  ngill [ Wed Sep 15, 2010 2:58 am ]
Post subject:  Responds to texts but ignored when trying to set date.
Any help is appreciated.

1) Girl gets on train. I am 8 seats down and there are many free aisle seats in front of me but sits next to me

2) She is gorgeous (HB8.5) and I waste no time in starting small talk

3) Turns out we have a LOT of similarities. Same profession/field of study, same interests in movies/food/music. We have lived in the same country on the other side of the world. Lot more coincidences which surprised both of us.

*4* We spoke non-stop for the 3 hour duration of the ride. Around one hr into the journey, i find out she has a bf (and she is visiting him). However, she expresses many distress signals. For instance, she says 1) she hates to make this journey so often especially since she is so busy 2) would prefer to spend time with people from her own field/profession because "others dont understand our lives" 3) feels lonely. 4) Even said that she wasnt excited about the trip 5) Asked me if I was single

5) I really liked this girl so asked if she is on facebook with the intention of making the transition and ask for her no. But she jumped before me and asked for my no. I said I will definitely call to which she replies enthusiastically.

CURRENT SITUATION:
About 4 days later (when I got back), I send her a text asking her about her weekend. She replies quickly. I send one more text inquiring about her week's schedule, and she replies that she is really busy and freaking out about the following week's exams.

The next text may have been a mistake...I say something to the effect of: that sucks but you can make some time for (activity which we talked about on the train). NO REPLY. I make another mistake. 20 mins later, I send another BS text about how she will get through it just fine and do really well and also ask her when the test is. Again, no reply.

So thats the situation. She may legitimately be busy and I can understand that because I have been where she is right now. But she could have easily said something like she is busy...call me after the test which is on this date. This makes me think she changed her mind? I dont know, its really pissing me off. Regardless, I am not quitting that easily, but I need your help.
Author:  maria_ [ Wed Sep 15, 2010 8:52 pm ]
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Most possibly she was upset with the boyfriend when she talked to you and he found a way to make up to her.
Author:  ChiefBx [ Thu Sep 16, 2010 3:40 pm ]
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Your biggest mistake was sending the second text before she responded to the first. Sending two texts before she sends one is a definite sign of a creeper to a girl.

Your second mistake was using text to ask her out. It basically says "I don't have the balls to say this to your face, or at least over the phone."

You might have screwed the pooch on this one... I say wait it out and just see if she contacts you again. If she does, do NOT attempt to make a date or flirt a bunch via text. Way too many guys overplay the text game, when in reality it should be less than 1% of your game.

The real way to succeed by texting is by texting as little as possible.
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