Hey, what's up everyone.
I am halfway through Strauss' book, and I've already started forcing myself into approaches. Honestly, it's been fun. Nerve-racking at times, but fun. And rewarding.
Anyway, I was a bar last night, and I started hitting on a 3 set, all girls. This was something I considered practice because none of the girls were terribly attractive. Anyway, I opened with "Do you believe in psychics" question, asked them to think of a number between one and ten, guessed seven correctly for 2 out of 3. Convo started rolling along, and I was negging on all three of them, actually. They were eating it up.
Eventually, I ran out of steam (I am pretty new at this, after all), however, if I went back to that table, they would have totally been into it.
After that, this girl I've met before walked up to me. "Hi," she says, "blah blah blah." So we're talking, and I'm negging her in all the right ways. You guys ever notice that when you neg a girl, they always laugh. It's fucking hilarious. She kept doing this thing where she's sort of curtsy in the middle of an exclamatory sentence. So I was like, "Yo, you keep doing this really goofy curtsy, and it's cute." Something to that effect. Gold.
I should have been a hair more ballsy/clever and relocated. Didn't, and she went back to her friends. So I left without saying goodbye (you know, to play that whole punishing thing). She texted me "It was soo good talking to you." I didn't text her back until this afternoon, and I was like, "that was cool last night." She texts, "Yeah, I was really intoxicated."
So, at this point, I'm thinking I shoud still be negging her a bit. This is the part of my game that was non-existent before reading The Game. So I imagine negging is something I need to practice. Anyway, I texted her back, "yeah, I could tell. It's cool though."
She hasn't texted me back. LOL! It's not a big deal at all; to me, this is all practice. Bottom line: when do you stop negging? How much negging is too much negging? What I just said was tame, right? Can someone give me an example of a neg that is too far (does that even exist?).
On a separate note, this community fucking rocks. I've done seven approaches in the last two days (I only started reading The Game three days ago), and I'm really not bad at this contrary to what I always thought. I'm a teacher, so I'm good at commanding attention and working a crowd--now I'm putting to use as far as picking up women. And it feels really great, and I can't wait to keep practicing and getting better and better.
Thanks in advance, guys.
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