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| Author: | BBanter [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 2:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Rejected once... Now GOOD mates... but want to close... |
Hello all, Situation in brief... Met 6 years ago Pulled in a club once - but both ended up seeing other people Recently both single... hung out loads Asked her if she wanted to get physical (I was so sure it was on & I never get rejected ha!) but she said no... After that became best mates discussing every person of the opposite sex, sharing sex stories, details on people we fancy, sharing beds etc. NOW... recently she has suddenly become very touchy/feely... a bit more intimate than before. I am trying to get a read on the situation but cannot. Because she knows me so well I find it hard to escalate or game. Worried if I do... it will blow the friendship which I value & I will look like a twat Any suggestions/tests I can run to see what she is thinking? Thanks |
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| Author: | dkjscfklsdfhj [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 4:12 pm ] |
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What do you mean you "asked her if she wanted to get physical?" You asked her if she wanted to kiss you? You asked her if she wanted to have sex with you, without having kissed her? You asked her to have sex with you after kissing her? Asking a girl if she wants to "get physical" is a sign of wussy behavior (using David DeAngelo's terminology). Just go for it, until she says no or puts a stop to it. I mean, be sure to escalate gradually. Sit next to her, close so your hips are touching, look at her face, brush the hair over her ear. Her body language will tell you whether she wants to kiss you or not. The touchy/feely stuff is a good sign. Have you held hands with her? Next time you do, give her hand a squeeze and see if she squeezes back. If so, that's a very good sign. If you haven't held hands with her yet you can do it naturally by leading her somewhere. |
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| Author: | BBanter [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 5:26 pm ] |
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Thanks... I did the ultimate wussy thing (despite normally being very good with game) I emailed her saying we had spent a lot of time together and clearly always fancied each other (there was some cocky/funny in there) finally we were both single and she should make an effort, put some decent clothes on, some make up, look half decent and lets hit the town. She came back saying she was not ready etc... wanted to be single for a while (had only been single about 3-4 weeks at the time to be fair) & was really happy the way things were between us. Since then she has witnessed me on a rampage with many attractive girls never single very long. She has always been a supporter, bur recently just been getting that vibe. Have held hands, not done the squeeze thing... will try... also do the hair thing & see if I can get a read on body language. Any other thoughts/ideas appreciated. Cheers, |
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