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| Author: | Jagermaster [ Sun Jul 18, 2010 3:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | KClose but played on the number close (Help pleasse!) |
(Its long...field report too..last paragraph is the bit i need help with!) I went out with my mate on saturday night it was our first real time going out to implement all we have learnt and been talking about doing for too long! It was a 21st birthday on a cricket pitch, and we came in together with a great vibe, glasses full of cava and a full bottle of jager! My mate made a beeline for a group of guys chilling on the grass bank, and after both parties had told a few offensive jokes..it was clear these were decent blokes up for a laugh. There were a few girls obviously part of this same group but involved in their own conversation, but we largely ignored them and bantered on with the guys. The theme of the party was a barn dance, which soon kicked off..which is by the way..fantastic. it involved having to be introduced and dance with most of the girls at the party, perfect for largely a newbie like me! After some dancing and a good dose of negging warm up during the dancing, there was a break, so we grabbed a few more beers with the guys. they introduced us briefly to the girls, and then we carried on joking about with them. great high energyvibe! We then all decided, in a slightly merry state to all play croquet, which was set out near the marquee. The music was starting again so my mate went for some more dancing with more girls, but I could see there was going to be a girl short of a partner if I left too. This girl also happened to be the one I had had half an eye on earlier in the evening. she was what my mate calls an 'alpha female' clearly the leader of the girl group, very confident and obviously used to bossing guys about...just the sort of girl i like.. So the croquet went awesomely..well the match was appaling but, I felt like I was running a negging masterclass, and she was lapping it up. MAny of the negs came from the banter i overheard from the guys we had been chatting to earlier, so in a way I was already part of their long standing group. After some more dancing and drinking, I bumped into the girl and after a bit more chat, and by this time she was giving as good as she got, and a nice tension building quiet period with a bit of triangular gazing, we kissed. My god..not just a kiss...a hair grabbing and pulling sexual release..from both sides! Part way through she stopped and announced I didnt deserve it and she needed more banter first. I cant really remember but I think I moved a bit closer, told her to shutup and pulled her head back, proper caveman style and carried on kissing her. She also tried the old congruence test of asking me what her name was...I passed but she then asked 'what am I not called' in reference to a nickname i had been negging her with earlier, when I replied she said ' oh you're so well trained'..not so good I thought! So we separated for a bit and I was near the exit when I saw her flapping about leaving, but not leaving...walked over and said sarcastically but with a playful tone 'bye then' and she said bye and we kissed again. as she walked off i caught her hand and pulled her back a bit and asked ' so how are you going to call me?' she turned to look at me properly and said playfully, 'oh they guys will have my number, i'm sure you can get it off them' and walked off. What could I have done to avoid this response, or in response to it?!? Also, now I dont have her number, but I have added one of her friends one of the guys on facebook i cant find her. Im sure he will give me the number, but can anyone suggest a good reopening to text/call her with once i have it? cheers guys |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Jul 19, 2010 1:44 pm ] |
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Well 2 things are for certain; She's full of herself. If you don't get a number, it ends there. So doesn't matter, just go for broke, do anything, so long as it's not wussy. She says "I'm sure they'll give it to you" you think THE HELL THEY WILL and grab her quickly and gently and say "We both know that isn't happening. Here, enter it now" and get out your phone. Whatever man - you just keep in mind nothing is happening ANYWAY without that number so - while staying alpha - try whatever. |
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| Author: | MPalm [ Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:39 am ] |
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It sounds like from all those questions she was trying to make you qualify yourself to her. Making you jump through hoops to keep kissing her. In my opinion, if a girl does this to you again (tries to make you jump through hoops just to talk to her/kiss her) snatch that hoop out of her hand and make HER do the jumping. If executed properly, she'll be the one asking you for the number. If not, you got the K-Close so overall the night was a success. Props for doing so well opening up the set too. |
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| Author: | Jagermaster [ Sat Jul 24, 2010 3:59 pm ] |
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not gonna lie conker.. i do like a girl who is a bit full of herself.. i guess theres a fine line between confidence and over confirdence (on her part) you're right.. i should have pushed harder for the number...i was thinking at the time about shoving my phone into her hands..it was out of battery...bloody new flash phones..dont even last a day! M palm..she was definately doing that.. i couldnt think quickly enough of hoops to give her..but it is a good point..which is why i just told her to shutup and carried on kissing her etc.. thought the assertiveness would at least be an alpha way to deal with it.. cheers mate..although..i think its adam lyons who says he always likes to think of anything like this as a failure..then theres room for improvement! p.s. some of the older guys down the pub said i should have just dragged her into the woods by her hair and fclosed her right then and there...apart from the fact this sounds very rapey...i definately think it could have been an idea! (obviously stopping if she actually did object!) |
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| Author: | Conker [ Sun Jul 25, 2010 1:05 pm ] |
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Yeah I like a girl who's confident. That thought you had, shoving your phone into her hands - following those in an alpha way are the key behaviours for creating attraction. Try to learn to follow them and not ignore them through fear. It can be difficult but just catch yourself wussing out and force yourself to do it. |
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