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Author:  Achey [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 1:26 am ]
Post subject:  Lots of KINO but connection is dying!
Hey guys, I know this is my first time posting but please read this :)

I was gaming this HB8 a week ago...

Day 1 -
I diddn't have to open because I was being with her friends I was ignoring her while showing value infront of her with my friends.

Later on the day when we went to eat at the resturant I got some alone time with her and decided to do the "Cube Test" and gots lots of IOI after that, but I did not escelate to any KINO yet because I felt it was not time for it just yet.

Day 2 -
I asked if she liked shopping and asked if she wanted to go with me and she said yes, when we met I started with a hug but it ended with me holding her hand, the excuse was that I'm going to lose her in the crowd if I don't hold her hand.

She was like "only couples does this", I just smiled and continued. After that it went on smooth and got even better when I decided to escelate it further when we went to the resturant, somehow I like gaming there :)

Anywas, I was going trough the "question routine" finding out about here craziest sex location, how many BF she had and so on. I ended with the question
"Can I kiss you"... I got the respond, not here.

We ended up making out in a photo booth after taking pictures after that it was going really well.

Somehow at the end of the date I decided to admit that I was an PUA... I know a little bit of an AFC off me but she started to suspect it earlier when I was running routines on her so I diddn't want to loose her trust.

I was explaning that I'm really good with women and thats why you think that I had sex with so many women and all that, the reason because I say this is because I like you... blablabla

Day 3 -
Lots of KINO(hand holding,kissing,etc..) but like no connection more, I even started to loose attraction to her because I don't always like leading.
The day ended in disaster with us both being tired of each other and now the fire is slowley dying.

So what should I do to get the connection going, conversation flowing like it used to be?
Author:  minsok [ Wed Jul 14, 2010 4:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Lots of KINO but connection is dying!
Quote:
Somehow at the end of the date I decided to admit that I was an PUA... I know a little bit of an AFC off me but she started to suspect it earlier when I was running routines on her so I diddn't want to loose her trust.

I was explaning that I'm really good with women and thats why you think that I had sex with so many women and all that, the reason because I say this is because I like you... blablabla

I'm guessing this is where you screwed up. Brag to other guys, but don't brag to girls you're trying to screw, especially not about how good you are at manipulating women. I'm kind of in the same boat with you with my target. I won't bore you with the details, but I bet if you asked this girl what's what, she'd tell you "she wants to take things slow." To me, this means she'll string you along until something better comes along. You can give her the bird and cut her off and just focus on other women. Or maybe you just need to escalate better, but the bottom line is she really isn't that into you yet.
Author:  luminova [ Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Lots of KINO but connection is dying!
Quote:
Quote:
Somehow at the end of the date I decided to admit that I was an PUA... I know a little bit of an AFC off me but she started to suspect it earlier when I was running routines on her so I diddn't want to loose her trust.

I was explaning that I'm really good with women and thats why you think that I had sex with so many women and all that, the reason because I say this is because I like you... blablabla

I'm guessing this is where you screwed up. Brag to other guys, but don't brag to girls you're trying to screw, especially not about how good you are at manipulating women. I'm kind of in the same boat with you with my target. I won't bore you with the details, but I bet if you asked this girl what's what, she'd tell you "she wants to take things slow." To me, this means she'll string you along until something better comes along. You can give her the bird and cut her off and just focus on other women. Or maybe you just need to escalate better, but the bottom line is she really isn't that into you yet.
ditto.

if you admit you're a PUA to her, then you have to be ready for things to get a lot harder (if you're the master of all game, this won't matter, but otherwise it will make your life more difficult...). telling her you like her didn't help either. you probably gained her trust, but in an LJBF way. :cry:
that is the flaw with routines, that they get discovered, however it is also possible that you did some "mind-reading" and gave her too much credit.
next time, i would recommend not mentioning anything about pickup artists or the community to a girl you are gaming.
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