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Paper...AychQ, I think you're missing a golden opportunity here.
You don't need a pad of paper, you don't even need a pen. If you want to securely close and reduce flakiness then have her write her number down. Here are the steps and then I'll explain why these steps work.
So you're talking to a girl. You "time bridge" and want to hang out at a later date. It's about that time when you would normally exchange numbers.
1. Take her by the hand and walk over to the bar. Don't ask her to come. Don't even tell her you are exchanging phone numbers. Simply grab her hand and walk her over.
2. If you don't have a pen, ask the bar tender. Grab 2 bar napkins and hand one to her.
3. Tell her you want to exchange numbers old school style. Also tell her you want her to write something creative so you remember her when you look back at your little napkin. I will usually either write something funny or draw a picture. For example. If we talked about cooking dinner I might write "this ticket is redeemable for 1 dinner and 2 glasses of wine." and then write my name and number underneath. Or I have drawn stick figures of us holding hands and put our names above each figure and written my name and number. It is corny, but it is a lot more memorable than handing your phone over and having her type it in.
4. Tell her if she doesn't write something clever you won't be calling her. Girls can't think on the spot so you can applaud any effort outside of just writing her name and number.
Once she gives you her napkin, put it in your phone soon after so you don't loose it.
This secures the number because she is now invested in this a little more than she normally would. It is also more creative than the average guy is willing to produce, and girls meet average guys all the time. The assertiveness of just grabbing her hand and pulling her over to the bar is big points. Whenever they look at that napkin, they will remember you more than just looking at your name in their phone. I guarantee she will hang it on her fridge or keep in on her dresser like nearly every girl I give these to. I have a shoebox full of them just for kicks.
This is gold, so try it out...
Nice one, I going to try soon!You don't need a pad of paper, you don't even need a pen. If you want to securely close and reduce flakiness then have her write her number down. Here are the steps and then I'll explain why these steps work.
So you're talking to a girl. You "time bridge" and want to hang out at a later date. It's about that time when you would normally exchange numbers.
1. Take her by the hand and walk over to the bar. Don't ask her to come. Don't even tell her you are exchanging phone numbers. Simply grab her hand and walk her over.
2. If you don't have a pen, ask the bar tender. Grab 2 bar napkins and hand one to her.
3. Tell her you want to exchange numbers old school style. Also tell her you want her to write something creative so you remember her when you look back at your little napkin. I will usually either write something funny or draw a picture. For example. If we talked about cooking dinner I might write "this ticket is redeemable for 1 dinner and 2 glasses of wine." and then write my name and number underneath. Or I have drawn stick figures of us holding hands and put our names above each figure and written my name and number. It is corny, but it is a lot more memorable than handing your phone over and having her type it in.
4. Tell her if she doesn't write something clever you won't be calling her. Girls can't think on the spot so you can applaud any effort outside of just writing her name and number.
Once she gives you her napkin, put it in your phone soon after so you don't loose it.
This secures the number because she is now invested in this a little more than she normally would. It is also more creative than the average guy is willing to produce, and girls meet average guys all the time. The assertiveness of just grabbing her hand and pulling her over to the bar is big points. Whenever they look at that napkin, they will remember you more than just looking at your name in their phone. I guarantee she will hang it on her fridge or keep in on her dresser like nearly every girl I give these to. I have a shoebox full of them just for kicks.
This is gold, so try it out...
I always exchange with my mob...
Your way is much more fun and it is indeed creative!
Thanks Roofas
