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Author:  dklosinski [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:  She mentions her BF
Me: im going out this friday night for some fun, join me?
HER : oh ya and what are your plans... were you goin and who with?
ME : Do you always ask this many questions? Lol call me now XXXXXXXX
HER: Hun i have no phone.... and yes i do i like to know whats goin on LOL well i do have a number kinda but i can't have any guys call he would flip the hell out if u know what i mean.... anyways do u not like me askin so meany questions?

Just curious as to how would you guys respond to this? Also how can you guys see the outcome of this. I met her at her job about a week ago, i believe she lives with her bf, how would you guys go about this?
Author:  Chelios [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:04 pm ]
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Time to friend her, build comfort and rapport. Be cocky and suggest your not trying to hit up on her, you want a reason to speak with her. Or give her your number if it comes to it, if not, move on, she has respect for her BF, millions of women out there.
Author:  a40536 [ Wed Jun 23, 2010 11:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She mentions her BF
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HER: Hun i have no phone.... and yes i do i like to know whats goin on LOL well i do have a number kinda but i can't have any guys call he would flip the hell out if u know what i mean.... anyways do u not like me askin so meany questions?
Like Chelious said turn it round on her like "You are thinking too far into our relationship I am only offering friendship you are allowed to have male friends aren’t you?”
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move on, she has respect for her BF, millions of women out there.
Honestly it may just be me and I may just be a man of low morals but when a girl says she had a boyfriend, or I know she has a boyfriend it makes me want to fclose her even more, it is more of a challenge.. Like I say may just be me hahaha

To be honest if dklosinski is quoting her word for work with the "I can't have any guys call he would flip the hell out" It sounds like this guy is very jealous and she is not allowed male friends, the pua saying is leave a girl better than you found her, ok he could abandon her with this jealous guy or he could show her there is better guys out their (even if it’s not him) for me, I would rather help her do better as it where.. But again that might just be me and I could have got the situation totally wrong......
Author:  dklosinski [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 12:04 am ]
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I agree about girls having boyfriends, I feel like i have achieved more even though in some cases girls with boyfriends are just tired of their relationship and they see the opportunity and they take it. while the single ones are single for a reason because they are picky and stingy.

From what i picked up from talking to her last time was that she was living with some "guy" for free and getting fed for free while she sat at home and relaxed. Sounds like she has it pretty good considering the guy supports her but is jealous. Its amazing what these guys do for girls....
Author:  a40536 [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 12:16 am ]
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From what i picked up from talking to her last time was that she was living with some "guy" for free and getting fed for free while she sat at home and relaxed. Sounds like she has it pretty good considering the guy supports her but is jealous. Its amazing what these guys do for girls....
Ok well in that case i retact most of the stuff from"To be honest if dklosinski", the way you framed it it sounded like he was some jealous (for want of a better word) asshole, however from what you say know he sounds like some poor afc, who gives her everything, becuase he thinks he can buy her with money... ect now i kinda feel sorry for the guy...

Anyway just use something like "You are thinking too far into our relationship I am only offering friendship you are allowed to have male friends aren’t you?"
Author:  dklosinski [ Thu Jun 24, 2010 3:40 am ]
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ME:You are thinking too far into our relationship I am only offering friendship. You are allowed to have male friends aren’t you?
HER well ya but it's weird how i met you though... And lol relationship nothing is going to happen your just a hella chill ass person....

Well this seems to be leading nowhere, I replied with, Youd be surprised at the places i have met people at ha, Thats what i said friendship,



Hmm . . .
Author:  a40536 [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 5:10 am ]
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ME:You are thinking too far into our relationship I am only offering friendship. You are allowed to have male friends aren’t you?
HER well ya but it's weird how i met you though... And lol relationship nothing is going to happen your just a hella chill ass person....

Well this seems to be leading nowhere, I replied with, Youd be surprised at the places i have met people at ha, Thats what i said friendship,
I would have replied with something like "genius you do realise friendship is still a relationship!! hahaha (change subject)" or "lol of course nothing is going to happen i like men! (change subject)" or "I am glad we cleared that up because i really don’t want you talking advantage of me when i am drunk"

Ok so how do we recover (in a sence) from the "Youd be surprised at the places i have met people at ha, Thats what i said friendship"

maby something like "oh Btw: Of course nothing is going to happen i like men! oh and when i said i have met people in strange places, i really did mean strange places i met my last boyfriend in a men’s toilet hahaha (change subject)"

i would recommend not just copying and pasting my lines, as they are my own c&f style (which may not fit your personally) and they are not polished, or even field tested although i did message a women something in the same style, and it had the desired effect.

Note: i am 100% not really gay, the i like men message i suggest was just because it disqualifies you, she will feel much more comfortable, and immediately think you are not hitting on her.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 4:47 pm ]
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if you put yourself in the friendship zone by disqualifying .... ''you and me, it will never work out ... you're too much of a nice girl.''
disqualify more often.

if you put yourself in the friendship and her into your friendship zone ( not you in her zone ) you have the power to undo it.
Author:  Zephyrine [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:29 pm ]
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1. If she's texting you, she probably wants it. I guarantee there aren't a whole lot of spoken-for women who are sitting around thinking "well, what I really need are more platonic, male friends."

2. The whole "I don't want my boyfriend to find out, so don't call" line is BS. He could just as easily (if not moreso) find out from a text. This is her way of keeping your relationship on her terms.

3. Invite her to hang out when you are going out with a group (preferably one that includes women). Say "Invite *Boyfriend* if you want." If she doesn't bring him - you're in. If she does bring him it will give you a chance to go AlphaLion on him.
Author:  RVAIS [ Fri Jun 25, 2010 11:47 pm ]
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The way I see it theres 2 responses.

1. Let her destroy her boyfriend for you.
http://www.break.com/index/she-has-a-boyfriend.html


2. Just go ballz out.
http://www.break.com/index/she-has-a-boyfriend.html
Author:  dklosinski [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 1:58 am ]
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This is all over facebook, she doesnt have a phone so the only way to contact her is through facebook. It seems like shes getting more comfortable now that im disqualifying her.

Thats funny, when i first met her i told her she was to much of a nice girl for me but i didnt add in the "you and me wouldnt get along" part, but she did give mean ioi so i decided to use it again

ME: Yes me and you wouldn't work, your to much of a nice girl for me. Well I'm going to this party, you can come, invite boyfriend to if you want.

HER : Im not that nice of a girl you really don't know me Trush Me!!! But anyways i wish i could go but mo money no car and no way in hell would i ask him to go if anything i would go by myself...He doesnt drink and he doesn't like people weird right

Now she is trying to qualify herself to me also she is putting down her boyfriend as if hes nothing. She lives about 40 minutes from where i live, how would you guys tackle the ride situation? She is obviously looking for me to give in and ask her if she needs a ride. Do you guys use push and pull with something like id give you a ride but my car cant handle nice girls or my cars only a two seater?
Author:  ALPHA LiON [ Sat Jun 26, 2010 2:58 pm ]
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If she does bring him it will give you a chance to go AlphaLion on him.
RAWR!
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