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| Author: | sadabcore1 [ Mon May 24, 2010 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She wants to bring her friend! Help Quickly Please! |
I met this girl the other day at the mall. We only talked briefly bc I had to leave. She gave me her number and seemed really interested. That was three days ago, now today we were talking about going out. I suggested dinner and a movie, and she says "Oh, I was going to bring my friend." ( not in a threesome type of way lol). What does this mean? I was about to say fuck it, cause it seems like a joke. But could she simply be nervous with a guy she doesn't know? Help please. |
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| Author: | Sleye [ Mon May 24, 2010 10:16 pm ] |
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in my opinion dinner and a movie may seem too formal, for now at least. You need to be casual about it, say something like: "i was gonna go see a movie with my buddy but he flaked on me, you should come with me instead  "if she says no then say: no problem |
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| Author: | sadabcore1 [ Tue May 25, 2010 12:01 am ] |
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thanks. but i told her to keep it moving. she rubbed me the wrong way |
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| Author: | sadabcore1 [ Tue May 25, 2010 12:14 am ] |
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and now she's apologizing saying she's shy. like wtf |
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| Author: | MrMonterey831 [ Tue May 25, 2010 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | But could she simply be nervous with a guy she doesn't know? |
( ""But could she simply be nervous with a guy she doesn't know? "") answer is yes . and let me tell u this , i have being out in dates and i had girl telling me they wana take a friend , and the rezen why is because she don't know u. and i mean u have to think of it in her point of view. now i suggest you win over her freand and putt a lil less attention to the target. that way shes not going to want to take her friend next time , and why is that? because shes going to want all the attention to her self, the next date. Now I suggest u work on her comfer levels . and making her feal safe, and get her trust . sorry bad ass grammar |
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| Author: | rx7fd [ Tue Jun 15, 2010 5:12 pm ] |
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^+1. you need to run some phone text game to get her to be comfortable with you. the fact that she wants to bring a friend doesn't mean that she's not interested... otherwise she would either say she's busy or flake on you last minute (which is still a possibility). establish better rapport. try to go pass qualify and get to comfort. and honestly dinner and movie is like the lamest date idea (just being honest). dinner for 1st date, showing you are just afc. movie, what do you expect to happen there? kino the whole time without talking? why not do coffee date. there's low investment for both the girl and you. if it doesn't work out, cut it short and go home. if it does, you should have 2 follow up locations for both kino and location escalate. if you want to do a "true" date, like i take my girls (the special ones) to go sailing. this might sound awesome on first thought, but think about it.. unless you have develop that trust, it's a BIG commitment. being stuck on the same boat with someone for a while with no control of where to go. but i can make it work because she knows who i am and that we're going to have fun. have fun man. |
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