PUA Forum :: Stuck in Comfort building zone??? Or can i get out??

Thanks for the advise guys, your legends. I gave her a call, she didn't answer, i messaged saying who i was, and that we should continue sat night this friday night and suggested a venue.

she messaged apologising, saying she is at work and that she didn't know the venue. I was at soccer training when the message was received, turned the phone on and 10 mins later got a call from her... i took it, said i was at training, she asked how i was etc, I told her where the bar was .... told her that i had to run and we'd speak soon.

Any advise from here on? Have I done everything right? & what do I need to do to make sure she knows I'm not into relationships SPAM, just mucking around

Author:	azzurro [ Mon May 17, 2010 10:49 am ]
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Hey guys, first post here. Im a 20 year old guy, who has been reading up all there is to know about pua's and methods. I dont want a relationship at this young age just a whole lot of fun with girls. Encountered something that I havnt been able to find an answer for. Met a girl at a club, performed a few routines and developed tones of kino and comfort from her. Now I was forced to take a friend of mine (who was severely sick) home just before I was going to kiss her and venue shift, then go from there. I explained the situation, grabbed her number and left with a quick "kiss goodbye". Now its been two days and I'm worried if i call her and meet up with her, its going to feel like we're in the friend zone since i never really got out of the comfort building stage completely. Do i just forget about this girl and move on or is there a way to continue from the point and go on with seduction?

Author:	Dr. Beat [ Mon May 17, 2010 11:18 am ]
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I would just ask her out, and play it cool. Don't even think to yourself about the friend-zone, and if she makes the silly mistake of mentioning it... try something like "Well, I don't really make distinctions like that. I can't promise you anything," with a playful grin.

Author:	Chelios [ Mon May 17, 2010 12:17 pm ]
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Your frame of mind is great, just enjoy life. Call the girl, don't text, don't apologise for the other day, introduce yourself, briefly asked what she's up to, say you can't speak long but suggest you carry on where you were last time and grab a drink sometime.

Author:	azzurro [ Tue May 18, 2010 1:28 pm ]
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Thanks for the advise guys, your legends. I gave her a call, she didn't answer, i messaged saying who i was, and that we should continue sat night this friday night and suggested a venue. she messaged apologising, saying she is at work and that she didn't know the venue. I was at soccer training when the message was received, turned the phone on and 10 mins later got a call from her... i took it, said i was at training, she asked how i was etc, I told her where the bar was .... told her that i had to run and we'd speak soon. Any advise from here on? Have I done everything right? & what do I need to do to make sure she knows I'm not into relationships SPAM, just mucking around

Author:	Chelios [ Tue May 18, 2010 1:33 pm ]
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Quote: Thanks for the advise guys, your legends. I gave her a call, she didn't answer, i messaged saying who i was, and that we should continue sat night this friday night and suggested a venue. she messaged apologising, saying she is at work and that she didn't know the venue. I was at soccer training when the message was received, turned the phone on and 10 mins later got a call from her... i took it, said i was at training, she asked how i was etc, I told her where the bar was .... told her that i had to run and we'd speak soon. Any advise from here on? Have I done everything right? & what do I need to do to make sure she knows I'm not into relationships SPAM, just mucking around You don't need to tell her your not looking for nothing serious yet, your getting to know her. How was her convo with you? Seems friendly and like she was interested to call you. I'd give her a call now, because you received contact from her so it's not you constantly chasing. Arrange when your meeting, go with the flow, have a good time.

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Author:	MPLS_Drummer [ Fri Jul 02, 2010 12:35 am ]
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Well I will give you my 2 cents on this. When you called and get voice mail. Hang up! Why? if someone calls you and doesn't leave a message, whats the first thing you want to do? Call it! Also, your jumping though a hoop. If a girl asks me why I didn't leave a message, I tell them that "I don't waste my time on voice mail." Have her do something first before you jump through a hoop, but it also matters on what level your at. There are exceptions to every rule. When She called you back, I would have let it ring, then a couple minutes later call her. You can than say "Hey, I had to finish something up quick, what's going on...." Don't say sorry, that's a Beta move. Otherwise it sounds pretty good. give us updates, let us know how things worked out and what you tried and what worked.

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