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| Author: | Grey Garrick [ Mon May 03, 2010 5:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is an hour a long enough time to make significant progress? |
Two questions: 1. A girl said she wanted to meet up but only had an hour. Is it even worth going? On the one hand I don't want to seem like a dick if I say I'm not going to go for just an hour but on the other hand I don't want to seem beta and make it seem like I'm letting her schedule control mine. 2. Also if she gives you the option to back out is it a bad sign? For example if I mention other things I have to do that day and she says something along the lines of "Oh, well it's okay if you're too busy." Is that her looking for a guiltless escape or is she honestly trying to accommodate my schedule? Thanks, Garrick |
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| Author: | adam emre [ Mon May 03, 2010 7:00 pm ] |
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mate, your over thinking it, she's being polite if she says its okay if you're too busy. if you want to gain the power back , just say you're busy, but you have to go blah blah, she should come with you ? |
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| Author: | livininthemoment01 [ Tue May 11, 2010 6:26 am ] |
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any amount of time is enough to make a signifigant impression on a girl. . an hour is more than enough time buddy. |
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| Author: | ChimeranPanda [ Tue May 11, 2010 2:16 pm ] |
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She's hedging her bets. For a girl, there aren't many things more important than a hot guy. She just said she has an hour so that if the date gets boring or she's not interested, she has an excuse to leave fast. |
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| Author: | Rune [ Tue May 11, 2010 2:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is an hour a long enough time to make significant progre |
Quote: 1. A girl said she wanted to meet up but only had an hour. Is it even worth going?
You do realize that's a PUA technique right there: Time Constraining.She said hour for the RECORD. "adam_emre: mate, your over thinking it" Agreed Mate. =p. Stop thinking. Quote: On the one hand I don't want to seem like a dick if I say I'm not going to go for just an hour but on the other hand I don't want to seem beta and make it seem like I'm letting her schedule control mine.
You're thinking.Stop it. Quote: Also if she gives you the option to back out is it a bad sign?
You're thinking.Quote: For example if I mention other things I have to do that day and she says something along the lines of "Oh, well it's okay if you're too busy." Is that her looking for a guiltless escape or is she honestly trying to accommodate my schedule?
Stop thinking, and stop creating imaginary, UNTRUE scenarios.Stay in the moment. NOW is truth. Stop thinking. Stop thinking. BUT, for technical purposes: 1 hour = "This guy's cool. I wonder what else he's like. 3 hours = "Wow. I met a really cool guy. I'll scrap my day for this dude" 5 hours = "lolol giggle. Please take me home soon" 7 hours = (subtly) "Would you like to fuck?" Could be less, could be more. I don't know. But stop thinking. |
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