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Author:  Direct [ Mon Apr 26, 2010 5:03 am ]
Post subject:  Better to call or text?

Hey guys i must admit, ive become really good at seducing girls one night but my day 2s SUCK. My phone/internet game is terrible, i figure now its time to stop experimenting blindly( and losing girls) and get some advise.

I always hear about this 1-2 day rule, and ive always thought it was garbage because it gives the girls a chance to lose interest (so i think at least). How long after should i give them a shout, and is it better to text or call? I dont like txting cuz not only is there more room for misinterpretation but it screws with my head too, like if a girl doesnt reply soon enough i go crazy.

anywho, so i got this girls number (HB 8.5-9), she was at a party at my house and she left a ring with a hypnotic swirl which i said she used to seduce me. i txted her and said she forgot it, and she said," i did it intentionally, oops" yea i know HIGH FIVE...

what i did next, i then negged a bit, and told her id call her 2moro(she works at a bar), was there anything wrong there? i was kinda hoping it would give a mild anticipation, maybe shell be thinking about me and the call, maybe not i dunno, what do u think?

Author:  ataraxia_88 [ Tue Apr 27, 2010 3:54 pm ]
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If you told her you'd call, then call.

Don't text someone when you say you'd call them. That comes off as extremely weak.

You can call at a later time, or a day later to illustrate that you're a busy guy, but please don't text her.

Author:  gatorbait [ Wed Apr 28, 2010 8:11 pm ]
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ya texting is the easy way out for guys who are usually too uncertain to call in the first place. plus, game is more effective when you're actually speaking to each other, and girls IMO are more honest on a phone call

Author:  Conker [ Thu Apr 29, 2010 3:49 pm ]
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Always call the next day, they're excited to hear from you (assume that by default). Cause if they're not, then waiting won't change that, but if they are, then waiting will change it for the worse.

Only txt heavily with girls who love to do that. Some girls just love having long text conversations full of flirting - I'm down ith that too, because it gives you time to think about what to say next. Determine early on if she's that kind of girl - see how she responds to a creative or funny message. If she doesn't respond enthusiastically enough, then she's not one of those girls. Only use email and text for really brief things that don't matter. Instead, phone call them and use your tone of voice and personality heavily to convey things, and save important conversations for face to face. I dig that because I convey a lot of humour and confidence through my tone of voice and body language.

Author:  TheTruthPUA [ Fri Apr 30, 2010 5:10 am ]
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If you told her you'd call, then call.

Don't text someone when you say you'd call them. That comes off as extremely weak.

You can call at a later time, or a day later to illustrate that you're a busy guy, but please don't text her.
Gotta agree... you told he u were going to call so don't half ass it... if u left it regular I would advise to text... most girls are nervous and hesistate to answer the phone when new guys call... So I usually text, but make sure u keep it short and just get to the date...

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