Why didn't you arrange a date one of first two times you talked. You're not a red wine. You're close to looking desperate already. Skip today, call tomorrow.

Seriously, no more chatting on the phone without arranging plans.

bro what i say is let the bitch hang, show her that she's not themost important thing in your life, make it seem like there's tons of other girls out there waiting to jump on your cock!!

phone in another 5 days this will give off that effect that you dont need her that badly (even if you do) phone and say "oh so sorry i'v just been oh so caught up lately, i havent had much sleep lately" implying you've been goin out alo

fatboy,

listen bro, I just went through a bunch of phone/text drama shit, not returning calls and what not.

the fact she called you back shows that she's willing to play along, but yes I totally agree with everyone else, you need to have a purpose when you call from now on. If she is thinking deep about it (which you want her to be) then she was probably like "why the fuck didn't he ask me out? maybe he has a gf? maybe he isn't really interested anymore? Which is great and all -

however, you can take advantage of your situation by waiting 3 to 5 full days with NO CONTACT. No text/calls/anything. No longer than that though or she'll drop interest all together most likely and you'll just be a joke. When the 3-5 days are up, call her up with some spontaneous shit. I call it my nut-train technique that was actually true at one point in time:

"hey, it's rocket"
"oh hi how are you?!"
"great. i just had the best tasting nuts ever. they were these crazy marcona almonds from spain, good stuff."
"ok..." don't let her talk too much, you're in a rush remember?
"hey i have to catch a train in a sec, but let's grab dinner on monday"
"i can't do anything monday my schedule is packed"
"what days are you available next week?"
"umm, wednesday and thursday"
"thursday after 7:15, perfect. meet over at my place and we'll head out when you get here" or if you'd prefer to pick her up do it but it's easier to get them comfy when you're coming back to your house. or if you live alone you could surprise her and cook up your own pasta or some shit. that works every time.

etc.

don't waste any more time on the phone with this girl than you have to - you're already pushing it.


Give us an update on whats up, cause it's been 2 days so maybe you already made your next move... Hopefully not.

"I love being single and it would take someone real special and different for me to date them."

Seriously you couldn't have said anything better than that. I mean, it's literally perfect. There's no way I could have conjured that up on my own, if I was in that situation I'd probably just mutter something retarded like "Yeah, I don't know what I'm looking for really." So thanks for the lesson, I'll try to read that line over and over throughout the next couple weeks.

No communication today and tomorrow would be great. Go find some shit to do too so you have a good story about how exciting it was to cut the grass, or whatever. Don't think too hard, it'll play with you. You've already hung out once so she's comfy, move into the intimate stage and kiss her next time you get an opportunity. You have to be on an ACTIVE WATCH for the opportunity, keep it in your mindset always.

This sounds really easy for you, don't make it harder than it is dude. She's way into you and has been actively pursuing you. Keep the chase going. Be glad you don't have to transition the chase too, she's the one that is going after you. Perfect.

gl, you got this one in the bag

rocket

So I will not communicate with her until Saturday? Then I will ring her up, tell her I can't talk long because I have to get ready for a party (even if I am not actually doing anything) and arrange to see her during the week some time.

Not really sure what we should do date number 2 though, I want to be able to Kclose for sure. I know there are lots of ideas for a day 2, but what are some good ones where you can Kclose?

I don't see why you would communicate with her today or tomorrow. There's just no reason. You have things to do, remember? She is just some random girl...

ask her what days she's available, just don't be too available for her. "I can do thursday?" Don't tell her yes, say you'll get back to her about it and call Sunday afternoon to confirm. Easy.

And like I said earlier, get her to your house first if you can. Makes it easier than hell to work things out that way after you come back from dinner/hanging out/whatever.