While surfing this site, i've notice that a lot of guys take their texting way too seriously, they wonder and ask what to open with, when to initiate, what to say etc., and when that occurs its the same idea as over-thinking in the field. Girls are very perceptive people, just when you over-think like in the field you come off as beta, the same thing will result if you over-think while texting. Remember its a sarge you can't over-think! so act as you would in a sarge Just have fun, be spontaneous, challenging, tease, play, be clever be cocky funny,be expressive (through punctuation and smileys), DHV and make her qualify cause girls shit test a lot during texts as illustrated below, and don't worry so much about timing or responses its only texts you cant even get rejected! if you have fun while doing it and keep it playful you can never over-text because she enjoys it! The main idea is to just always have fun.
To illustrate my ideas i have posted my texts from this evening.
Boomer: Tatata talkin bout BLA BLA BLA !!
HB: Haha i love that song!! what are you up too??
Boomer: I'm chillin at the church across the street from you all night, Lets do another stoop chill!!
HB: Maybe when i get back from the library...
Boomer: Ok word ill drop by at one.
HB: 2 lol
Boomer: 2 it is, see you later alligator
later that evening...
HB: I really can't chill at 2, i have to study
Boomer: Its ok i understand, isn't it past your bedtime anyway? :p
HB: My mommy said its ok because i'm studying
Boomer: HaHa that's good my mommy has no idea I'm up, i guess i've been a bad boy don't tell on me.... :p
HB: Ill give you a spanking next time i see you
Boomer: Ummmm.. i usuallycharge a hefty fee for touching but maybe we can workout a payment plan..:p
HB: You'd be lucky to have me touch you
Boomer: Yeah, i could really use the money!! :p
HB: Rude
Boomer: I know, but in this economy you do what you gotta do!
HB: True, you gotta sell yourself
Boomer: True I'm booked but i'll take a look at my calender and see if i could fit you in..
HB: HAHA ok
Boomer: Alright, but i can't promise you anything!
HB: Lol ill survive
If wants to critique if they think i went wrong i'd more than appreciate it.
If you have fun while texting she will MIRROR your fun and it will be a playful convo. So too my brothers who are having trouble and overthinking, just relax, take it easy, have fun and keep it light, Remember children play a game to have fun. The results will be rewarding and your text game issues will be a thing of the past. and another threshold of game will be crossed in our pursuit of complete mastery of the art of Seduction. Good Luck Brothers and have fun out there!
As always regards from Jersey,
Boomer and Fivo
