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| Author: | RandD [ Sun Mar 14, 2010 9:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Did I get friend-zoned? |
So about 6 months ago I meet this bird. We become friends on facebook after running into each other a few times. So over 4 or so months we chat online a couple of times and I suggest meeting but she says no because she has a boyfriend. Fast forward to last week she messages me and is very forward about us meeting up soon then a day later she wants to meet friday. She has just broken up with her boyfriend. So on friday we go out and go to a few different places and we are getting along pretty well. I am keeping her laughing and stuff. I showed her a few tricks etc and did some kino. So she spoke to me about her ex a bit and what he did and also asked me what kind of girls I like. Then she did something a little off, she gave her number out to this guy who gave her a cigerette and told me she thought he was cute. Does this mean I am conclusively in the friendzone, I completely ignored it. I would actually keep her as a friend if its the case but would like some feedback as after she did that it kind of knocked me off closing her that night,,,,, |
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| Author: | Bluewave [ Thu Mar 18, 2010 9:38 pm ] |
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Hmm, that would have put me off a bit as well. I don't think you're conclusively in the friendzone, you may be able to pull it back. I always make a point of never being an emotional tissue for girls to cry into, when you start consoling them over boy problems, you get to the gay-best-friendzone, not a good place to be. |
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Thu Mar 18, 2010 11:15 pm ] |
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Wow dude, that sucks.. I don't know whether to conclude if you are in the friend zone or not but either way show that you're more than a shoulder to cry on. Back off a while then break rapport once you get back in, build some comfort and you should be back in the zone. Good luck  AFCCoffee |
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| Author: | RandD [ Sat Mar 20, 2010 5:23 pm ] |
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So since this she came out with me a the guys for a few drinks handled herself really well. Every day since the first day 1 she has messaged me and suggested ways we could meet up, watch movies etc....... At the same time she has a date with this other dude she met on our day 1. Pretty confused... |
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| Author: | MickCoffee [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 10:19 am ] |
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Still not enough to say she doesn't want to do a date with you. Be cool with it, we PUAs date multiple girls as well. You should do the same just to show you aint a pushover. Raise your value and you'll come out on top. AFCCoffee
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| Author: | R3D [ Mon Apr 12, 2010 7:31 pm ] |
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ever consider it being a shit test? |
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| Author: | Tal0n [ Mon Apr 12, 2010 8:22 pm ] |
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Begin some immediate, heavy kino escalation, as well as sexualize your conversations as much as you can without it becoming obvious. You may not be particularly comfortable with it, but you must steer clear of *all* her conversations about other guys. If she brings up the ex you have to express somethign along the lines of, "Are we still talking about that guy? Get over it." If she brings up Day 1 Dude, you can either try to get the conversation away from him, or use him to establish an emotional mindset conducive to your goals (transfer her attraction to him to you). Choose now if you want her as a friend or not. If you want to pursue, do it hard and fast as you can without seemingly like you've become a different person overnight. |
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| Author: | Jeremiah [ Thu Apr 22, 2010 9:32 am ] |
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You tell that bitch that your a gentleman so you would never do that, and you assume she is a lady so your surprised that she did that while she was out with you. Don't say it in an angry way though. Second make your intentions clear directly or indirectly. Me and you both know you dont wanna be friends with this chick so dont let it go any further if thats what she is tryin to do. Either kino to the point of a kiss and more or tell her that you think she is beautiful and youve had fantasies about her all day and gauge her response. Dont waste your time with a girl who is tryin to be just friends when your not. |
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