So me an a fellow pua "TheJersey Guy" came up with an excellent Day 2 Frame.
Credit to the JerseyGuy for writing it out.
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In order to make the date less stressful, this technique will help you to make the interaction more relaxing and comfortable.
As soon as you see the girl, say "Hey" or "Hello" and right before you say ANYTHING else, you set the frame..
The actual technique goes something like this:
As you start walkin with her (or for even better results *but harder* do it lookin straight at her eyes you have to say...)
PUA: Ok so Im gonna give you a heads up of how this is gonna go ok? First we gonna enjoy the first uncomfortable minutes of this interaction, cause well [...], we really dunno each other and Im still a lil bit concern with you and your amazingly direct sexual inuendos
HER: Haha, yeah ok...
PUA: Oaight. Afterwards we are goin to have an amazingly romantic evening with coffee in which I'm gonna act like a complete gentlemen. I will be opening the door for ya, pulling the chair for ya, ordering for ya, and all this stuff... We're gonna get to know each other, gonna laugh like dorks and we're gonna have serious conversations too.. At one moment in our amazing conversation, Im gonna completely stop you and steal a kiss from you.. But don't you get any crazy ideas ok its just gonna be one short but very, VERY romantic kiss.. You know the type of kiss you tell your friends like "OMG DID X!", yeah like that.
HER: Hahaha oh is that so..
PUA: Yeah, the only thing is that at some point I will also stand up and go to the bathroom and actually BAIL on the check.. So what you should probably do is stop right there in that precise moment is probably kiss me again OR follow me to the bathroom OR probably do is stop right there in that precise moment is probably kiss me again OR follow me to the bathroom ORhold me really tight or else I might just end up gettin away! So at the end we will leave each other, who knows, probably kiss goodbye again AND ONLY THEN we are gonna get uncomfortable and anxious again cause now its all bout the nice "good nite sweet dreams wtvr" txt message SO WE JUST WON'T DO IT. Pinky promise we have made a deal now!
If you do it properly, she will follow up with your instructions cause at the end, every woman wants to be lead by a man. Also, if you shoot all this technique at ONCE, and she complies, then she subcounciouslty accepted the fact that you're gonna kiss her, probably leave the date, laugh, etc so her frame has changed positively for the entire interaction.
In case of any response like "I wanna make some rules too." You would have to answer somethin like: "You payin for the dinner now? No. I AM. So I get to choose the rules this time. For our next date Ill let you pay and THEN you make the rules hun
."That should be enough.
Game On Fellas,
Augustto "The Jersey Guy" & Dalexis "Prince"