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| Author: | jonathan99 [ Thu Mar 04, 2010 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need Advice to get this girl. |
I don't know if this is supposed to be in relationship or in here so I can close the deal. This girl is asian, let's call her Linda. I have a feeling she wants me to chase her like a puppy dog humping her leg all the time which is not really my style nor do I want to do it. So I need help so I don't have to do that. She is pretty or maybe somewhat average but I dated girls prettier than her but her confidence is really high cause she makes almost around 100k a year. Her friend likes me a lot. Her friend is totally into me. Let's call her Susy. But I'm into Linda. I started giving Linda attention but I always wait for her to approach me first. It felt like we connected and we have a strong sexual tension/attraction towards each other. I got her phone number and called her once. She knows I'm really interested or into her. She started acting cold the next day and also whenever me, her and all of our friends hang out. I approach her and she would leave and talk to someone. When we are alone, she wouldn't stay. So I didn't call her again for two weeks and I started acting cold around her too. I started talking a lot with Susy. Linda thought we were getting along and she thought I'm starting to like Susy. So one day, Linda wore a really lovely red dress just for me(i think). She went to my spot so she can talk to me. She was saying that I should talk to her more, call her and stuff. She was saying she wants a bf but no one would court her. She wishes someone would. I'm the only person there so I think she was telling me to court her. So I called her after a couple of days, she was giggling like crazy just by talking to me then she hang up in 30 minutes. BTW I told her I don't like susy and i want to get to know her better. I couldn't even escalate the conversation lol. She had to go. She started acting cold again next day and started giving me all these sh^t tests. For example: Our friends would say that I should go out with Susy. Linda would say, "yeah Jonathan". She keeps asking me to fetch her something. I don't know if I should refuse or just do it. I called her again, she didn't answer. She moved to a different office so her schedule or work time is different. Anyway, what should I do to get this girl? I think she wants me to court her the old fashioned way and be like her servant or something. I'm debating whether I should text her and ask what time would be good to call her? |
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| Author: | -E-Ze [ Fri Mar 05, 2010 9:41 pm ] |
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from the sounds it of it could be that your not escalating quick enough for her, and thats why she keeps going hot-cold-hot-cold Because when you do do things right it goes well and she seems into you, but then when you do things wrong, such 'not escalating on the phone' she goes cold, becuase she thinks that your not interested. Your doing too much push-pull I would say that next time its going well, go for a k-close, dont wait till the next time or whatever, just go for it, if it works it works, if it doesnt it doesnt, its just one of these things. Good luck mate |
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