ok thx..doing her a favor? like, asking her something about not having better stuff to do on a saturday night as a neg?
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| Author: | diversemannen [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:51 pm ] |
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so im 18, and theres a 15-year-old coming over to my place on saturday to hang out and maybe watch a movie or something. i know for a fact that she likes me and find me attractive. the thing is we have never spoken irl and we've only been in the same room once. but we've chatted for a while and we decided to hang out (u could call it a date i guess). she doesnt have any experience at all, im doubting she has even kissed a guy. so there wont be much happening in that area, hopefully some making out but not more than that. now.. im wondering a few things, since we dont know eachother very much i wanna know a few questions or subjects that thet would be good asking about, i dont wanna ask her about school and boring stuff like that. im also wondering what movie to watch, my friend is always saying thet girls wanna see romantic comedies, because they get happy and it touches some romantic nerv somewhere. but we also joke about that u should watch horrormovies because it gives u an excuse to be under the same blanket hand pulling the girl close to u. what do u think? if u think im waay off by watching a movie with her please say so and suggest something else we can do on our own without leaving the house. (she says she just wanna chill out watch a movie or something btw) anything else u wanna know just ask peace |
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| Author: | jbs10 [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 9:56 pm ] |
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From 15 to 18 is a huge age gap life experience wise. You could talk about how dog shit annoys you and I'm sure she'd be interested. Just act like you're doing her a favor by hanging out with her and it'll be fine. |
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| Author: | diversemannen [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:00 pm ] |
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| ok thx.. doing her a favor? like, asking her something about not having better stuff to do on a saturday night as a neg? |
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| Author: | jbs10 [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:37 pm ] |
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No, that would just make you look bad. More like-- "I've never really hung out with someone your age" or "I can't believe you're only 15, you have so much to experience still" She'll end up trying to defend her age "you're only a few years older!" You have her right where you want her-- she's trying to qualify herself to you. You're the prize. |
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| Author: | diversemannen [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 10:41 pm ] |
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great im sure i can come up with a few versions of that  thanks
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| Author: | diversemannen [ Thu Sep 06, 2007 11:06 pm ] |
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ok i think im getting this  more questions to add to the others.. in what order should i do things like: showing her my room/showing the house, getting her a drink, asking what movie she wants to see, actually seeing the movie? ... and how can i get a conversation going without just standing around talking in the kitchen or something?.. i guess i should have some music on when she gets here so it's not too quiet? |
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| Author: | millsinator [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 12:47 am ] |
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Mate this one is easy you have everything stacked in your favour, your house, you are older, DHV to the max! make sure u act like its ur house, take up as much space as possible spread out when u sit Just make sure you have things prepared such as, drinks, maybe some pop corn, if u plan on having dinner what u are having. Also i believe mystery said this u say 1 interesting thing "thats an interesting comment, u say 10 interesting things u become interesting" seeing it is ur house it will be easy to have things lying around that can be conversatation starters, books, cds, whateva! Oh and as far as movies go maybe some thing with a bit of a sex scence, then u could say something like dont get any ideas now! |
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| Author: | Whitey [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:04 am ] |
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Quote: seeing it is ur house it will be easy to have things lying around that can be conversatation starters, books, cds, whateva!
unless youre like me and arrange your book case like this: true crime, religion(i study religious texts, bit of a nerd), socio-political books, books about the hardcore and punk scene, fiction, military, import tuner magezines the first 2 make girls think im weird i think personally, 15 is too young for me even at 18. there's a lot to worry about there |
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| Author: | jbs10 [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 1:16 am ] |
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Please don't listen to millsinator, that was horrible advice. |
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| Author: | diversemannen [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 4:37 pm ] |
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ok so the date is in like 24 hours.. still not sure about the movie or thw whole "showing her around/getting her a drink/watching the movie" thing... |
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| Author: | jbs10 [ Fri Sep 07, 2007 6:15 pm ] |
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You can be polite and offer her something when she gets there, but don't have drinks and popcorn sitting there ready for her like she's some special princess. That's a big DLV. If the house is really nice and there's a purpose to show her around, go ahead. Otherwise don't-- you don't want to act like it's a big deal that she's there. |
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