Alright so let me get as descriptive as i can because i would really love some advice! So I met this girl maybe about 4 weeks ago . We work together doing performances and such.. About 3 weeks ago she came up to me and asked me for my BBM info then we started talking via BBM.. couple days later she asked for my phone number and called me up. I met up with her 1 day for something quick to eat after work. She gave me alot of eye contact and i think she was really feeling me! I didnt do any kino( I KNOW ROOKIE MISTAKE
.. ) Either way she txt me up later saying she had alot of fun. Next time i saw her she was doing some kino on me and we just been talking alot via BBM and on the phone. Everytime she would initiate the conversation! So our situation is kinda weird because we started talking about this girl i was seeing and this guy she was seeing. It didnt work out for either of us and i Ended up stop talking to that girl i was seeing and she hates the guy she was talking to but i dunno if she still has feelings for him or not . Either way on valentines day i told her I would meet up with her and she flaked never txt me back! So either way next time i saw her she was doing some kino on me and I told her I was gonna be DJin at some club last saturday! i didnt even invite her she self invited herself! then SHE FLAKED!! she said she had plans with a friend! The next day she hits me up and she tells me that she went on a date with some guy and it didnt work out he wasnt fun bla bla and i was like well yea you shoulda came out with me it was alot of fun.. etc. anyway so she kept playfully saying why do i flirt with her so much and how i wanted to ask her on a date... so i told her yea i will .. later on in the conversation over the phone i told her lets hang out thursday.. the next day she BBM me like 8 am insider joking and I told her i wanted her to get her hair done sexy for our date this week* she was talking about how she figured out a way to do her hair sexy * she said our date? And iwas like yea our date? she was like pssh im busy on thursday dontchu no u gotta consult a ladys schedule b4 u make plans? * i took this as playful banter* and i was like well free up your plans then *which was weird because she already said shed hang with me thursday * so then she said weekdays are bad for her weekends are best so i guess she was giving me a shittest that i failed because i told her we can postpone it till friday after our show or saturday around 5 pm and she was like "yea maybe that sounds better" so i said "saturday" she said "yea" I said "Ill pick you up at 5" she said "that is tentative ! slow doowwnn then i said "lol what you mean" And conversation deadstopped and I hadnt heard from her since. Another 2 notes she posted a pic of me and her as her facebook profile picture! then also she said she liked the other guy she was seeing before me because it was like a cat and mouse fight so i guess shes trying to have a push pull battle with me? Im new to this! And i really like this girl i think she has a great personality. Please help me approach this i dont want to lose !