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| Author: | Pathfinder [ Mon Feb 22, 2010 3:14 am ] |
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So I've been in the background on this forum for a while and have never posted. I've run into a chick that for some reason I can't seem to act or think clearly about...definitely a little one-itis going on here...and I'm in need of some advice/comments. So basically the situation is like this. One of my roommates found this girl in one of his classes. He started talking to her and trying to game her a bit. He's a lot more of the inexperienced AFC/shy type and often times needs a helping hand with women. He came to my roommates and I and asked how he should go about talking to this girl. We helped him get her number and such through facebook. One night when we were all out at a party he had been texting her and got her to come through. So she shows up to this party where she doesn't know anyone to come and see him and have a good time. Since we were all at the party together of course he introduces us as his roommates (only two of us are there at the time). Initially i didn't think anything of the girl as we were trying to get my friend laid (for reference sake she is HB7-7.5). Anyway, we are all laughing and talking and bigging up my roommate, kinda wingmanning it for him as we knew he needed all the help he could get. Eventually we leave to let them isolate. Long story short he wasn't successful and she ended up leaving and going her own way as we all left to go home. Fast forward to the next night. We are all out at another party and I run into this same girl completely by accident. We start talking as friends and I obviously had had too much to drink and ended up saying "she's lucky my roommate likes her because if I had seen her first things would be different" she looks at me and says pretty much that "its not that my roommate is not a good guy its just that shes not feeling him like that. They have too many awkward moments and he just isn't her type." It still wasn't my territory so i didn't pursue anything. Later on in the night when my roommate had found her we were all talking again and she let it slip that her ex had been a black guy of jamaican heritage. My ears perked and i became even more intrigued as I'm also of jamaican heritage. Anyway same scenario as the night before ended up happening and she ended up going her own way as we went ours. That week she finds me on facebook and friends me. We end up on chat talking and flirting with each other extremely hard. I number close immediately and we move from chat to text. However, as the week went on it kinda fizzled out as i had a lot of things to do and wasn't gaming as hard. She asked me to come to the library with her and i ended up ignoring it completely by accident. The day after valentines day I see her on chat and ask her how her valentines day was. We chat for almost 3 hours about our pasts and deep shit about life and love and such. Now I started to feel her on a mental level and i realized it. The next day i text her and she ends up asking me to come to the library with her again. I go and study with her all night. We leave when the library closes and she drops me home as she drove and i walked. After I get home she texts me saying she cant sleep. I call her and we talk for two hours (4am). The next day I end up at the library with her again and there is obvious sexual tension and interest in the air. I have class early the next day and leave her still studying. The next day (Thurs) I end up at her house at night and we talk and end up hooking up and taking it upstairs. We are all into it and the connection is ridiculous. I start to undress her and she resists. She tells me she wont sleep with me the first time we hang out. I like her so i wasn't mad except for the fact that i had a brick wall in my pants. We end up having pillow talk and chillin out jus enjoying each others company with kisses and all the gooey stuff. The next morning (Fri) she drops me home we kiss goodbye and she says text/call her later. I pass out cause I wasn't feeling well. When I woke up I eat and call her. She answers and there is somewhere where there is loud music and i cant hear her. I hang up and she never texts back or says anything. That night I'm out at a party and she texts me asking what I'm doing. I say I'm at a friends house what is she doing. She doesn't reply for the rest of the night. The next day (Sat) there are no texts all day. I get a little AFC and text her around 8 and say whats up. We text and she says shes at work and gets off around 10. I ask her what her plans are, then she asks me mine. Afterward I tell her I'm trying to see her that night and she doesn't respond. Today (Sun) i don't text her or call her all day and i get no calls or texts. Around 8 she leaves a post on my facebook wall saying a joke that we had had together in bed during pillow talk. For reference, she is the stubborn, strong-willed type. Also she is definitely a bit cocky and is well aware that she is attractive I like this girl a lot but I'm not sure what is going on now or how I should act towards her. I know this is a long story but any help is appreciated. |
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| Author: | Buccaneer [ Tue Feb 23, 2010 2:51 pm ] |
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the fact that she is referring to the pillow talk means that she feels very comfortable with that. But is probably afraid to go back to an isolated state with you cause she fears that you will push for sex again. Try to either talk about this, or isolate her in a public area to have some more deep convo's. For as far as I can understand you post, this girl just is attracted, but is to uncomfortable to go all the way with you. So just built some more comfort. take her out to a public place or have a great time partying. Keep reacting to her IOI's and wait for them to get sexual. It's probably just a matter of time if you keep the comfortlevels going up. good luck! Bucc |
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| Author: | Smartbomb [ Tue Feb 23, 2010 7:06 pm ] |
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My advice - buy rubbers. You're going to need them. You don't need whatever is on offer here, at least not yet. That is the genius of being in college. |
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