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Author:  Flako [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 11:37 pm ]
Post subject:  What do you guys think?
First of all I'd like to say hello to everyone even though it is not an 'Introduction' forum but anyways since it is my first post here.

Second... few words about my situation - typical 31 y.o. rAFC fresh out of almost 5yr LTR. I felt that I lost all of my game through relationship but as it turns out not all is lost.

Now to my rebound case #1:
I've been sarging online (I know I'm lazy and I should get out more :-) and gone to a couple dates already.

This particular chick is 23yo HB7-8. She initialized conversation online and I just replied with some C&F stuff which (as expected) pissed her off and conv went from there. We finally met after about 1 month of casual online convo (she wasn't in town) and had a pretty good date that ended in a mild kino.

(Sidenote: guys - I love "lifestyle shopping centers" - you can take a girl to 4-5 different places without much effort and they absolutely love it.)

We started making out on a second date but she resisted going any further (I suspected it was a rag time but I usually don't ask). We had 2 more "dates" after that but she always bringing some of her girlfriends with us (excuses range from - "she gave me a ride and invited her over" to "my friend just broke up with b/f and I don't want to leaver her alone") and now... tonight she's inviting me over to a night club where supposedly bunch of her friends and co-workers are going each week. I'm kind of in doubt if I should really go there... I have a feeling that I'll get a bunch of excuses again for not going to my place - "I'm tired today", "What about my friend X?" and so on. I have a good friend that is winging me but I also afraid that after 3-4 shots we'll start hitting other girls. :) and it'll be another excuse for her too. :)

Anyway... I really don't have much feelings for her but it's more of a quest to score it now. She's definitely trying to pump up her value and I can see it. Kinda like "I'm not so easy to get to" type. So even though she's showing all signs of interest I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. Or should I just bow out all together?

All comments are welcome.
Yours truly,
Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Sun Feb 21, 2010 7:57 am ]
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Sounds to me like 2 or 3 different things are happening with her..

ONE

She don't want to be alone with you cause she might be slutty girl who is trying to
take things slow this time to see if you are THE ONE.

TWO

She wants to see what her friends think about you and how you treat her friends.
If you and her don't break it off in a BAD way, you might just get to lay her friends.

THREE

She wants to see if you are only with her to get a piece of ass. Most girls have a
2 to 6 month NO SEX rule going on now days. She might be one of these girls.

FOUR

I know, I didn't say 4 possible things.. but.. since you're still reading.. hope this
helped you out more than you already knew. Good luck with her friends bro..
Author:  Flako [ Sun Feb 21, 2010 6:47 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks, L.

You're absolutely right in this case. I can see all of it going through her mind.
According to "her drunk girlfriend" intel she was dating a rich dude before which ended badly so I guess it covers point 1 and 3.
I'm playing it nice with her friends so I may still get her friends later (she's got a few hot ones :) )

But for now I think I'll just freezeout and put her on a dating backburner - we can go out once a week or smth. And as long as she doesn't see me hanging out with someone else I might get a lay after few weeks.

Side note: I think going out on day 3 with her friends is not a bad idea at all. But make sure you don't drink much because:
1) you can gather some intel about your girl by just asking her friends directly - "What do you think of X?" and so on. After few drinks they will tell you everything possible (although you may need to read between lines)
2) when she invites you to go out with her and her friends she's seeking validation from them so make sure to project right image onto them.
Author:  Flako [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 7:36 pm ]
Post subject: 
Well. It's been more than a week already. We went to a movie (again together with her friend) and didn't really spent much time together.

I'm just wondering if it fine to be straightforward and ask if she's interested in meeting at all.

I just don't want to fall into friend zone. I rather cut it off all together instead.

Thanks
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