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Author:  SimpleTwist [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 1:48 pm ]
Post subject:  What is the best way to "ditch her friend"?
Sometimes you're in a club and you want to take a girl home, she'd be up for that... but doesn't want to look like a slut in front of her friend. So for instance if you are in a taxi already with 2 girls, sometimes the one you were making out with in the back seat still won't come in (even if she initiates the makeout!) - because her friend is in the front seat.

Another time I was in a taxi, and I was sure the girl was coming to my place. Because she wanted to. We already discussed it and she was definitely up for that. But I was in the middle, she on the left, her friend on the right. Taxi pulls up to my place, her friend gets out. I get out. Then she jumps back in and slams the door. I was looking at her just like with a WTF expression. "my girl" was looking at me from the back of the taxi as it drove away with a "lost puppy" expression. I think maybe that girl had a boyfriend or something and her friend was trying to protect her, because I can't think of any other explanation for it.

So how do you guys generally avoid these situations?

p.s. I'm all up for taking both girls back to my place also, but only when they are both really nice looking...

so my question is just what the best way is to ditch the friend... how you guys tend to do it? let's say you tell "your girl" we are leaving, and then her friend tags along to the coatcheck. From here, what do you guys generally do?

This is personally the weakest area of my game
Author:  The Persian [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:04 pm ]
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Don't think its that hard to come up with a result.
1. You could discuss it with the girl ur picking up (what if your friend wants to join us and ...) and she can suggest a plan B
2. Drop her friend off first maybe? lol
3. worst comes to worst and she doesnt come with ya, if you play your game right, day after she is not going to feel like a slut (tho she never slept with ya) so when u call her, u can arrange another time together!
Author:  SimpleTwist [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:41 pm ]
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Don't think its that hard to come up with a result.
1. You could discuss it with the girl ur picking up (what if your friend wants to join us and ...) and she can suggest a plan B
2. Drop her friend off first maybe? lol
3. worst comes to worst and she doesnt come with ya, if you play your game right, day after she is not going to feel like a slut (tho she never slept with ya) so when u call her, u can arrange another time together!
ah, I like #1... ok that's what I'll do from now on.

#2 good idea too... I have done that before, it just felt weird sometimes driving way out and then back again -but yeah, that does make sense

about #3... well the thing is, most girls that I wouldn't mind taking home from clubs - I don't really feel like putting the energy into meeting them another time.
Author:  The Persian [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:47 pm ]
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Don't think its that hard to come up with a result.
1. You could discuss it with the girl ur picking up (what if your friend wants to join us and ...) and she can suggest a plan B
2. Drop her friend off first maybe? lol
3. worst comes to worst and she doesnt come with ya, if you play your game right, day after she is not going to feel like a slut (tho she never slept with ya) so when u call her, u can arrange another time together!
ah, I like #1... ok that's what I'll do from now on.

#2 good idea too... I have done that before, it just felt weird sometimes driving way out and then back again -but yeah, that does make sense

about #3... well the thing is, most girls that I wouldn't mind taking home from clubs - I don't really feel like putting the energy into meeting her another time.
glad u liked it. :)
for not putting energy to meet them again, here is my view. I dont like One night stands. I rather have fuck buddies and SPAM Im in relationship. The good thing with fuck buddies is, girls have diff ways of getting them to orgasm. Some get it just by clit, some by G-spot, some by bitting and pinching the nipple, some like it rough, some like it soft and ... so when u have sex with a girl after a few times, u both are more comfortable and u learn whats her fav things and shit, so u gain more experience, also sex would be better as she knows what you like and she is more comfortable around you!
Author:  SimpleTwist [ Fri Feb 19, 2010 2:58 pm ]
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glad u liked it. :)
for not putting energy to meet them again, here is my view. I dont like One night stands. I rather have fuck buddies and SPAM Im in relationship. The good thing with fuck buddies is, girls have diff ways of getting them to orgasm. Some get it just by clit, some by G-spot, some by bitting and pinching the nipple, some like it rough, some like it soft and ... so when u have sex with a girl after a few times, u both are more comfortable and u learn whats her fav things and shit, so u gain more experience, also sex would be better as she knows what you like and she is more comfortable around you!
I am just a lazy bastard ) if the girl is really hot and I like her, then I will put in the energy for sure. That is what I most look for, a hot girl that I will keep around for quite some time.

But when you're in a club and there is a good looking girl totally into you, I just love that feeling too... so I like to take those girls home for the night.

Then the sun comes up and I see how they look like in daylight... and j/k :D
Author:  The_Enforcer [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 8:12 am ]
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This is a situation that reminds me of something and mentor of mine once said to me. I was in a tricky situation, torn between different people and the various promises I had made them, and I said to him...... James, how the hell would you get out of this situation.

He looked at me straight in the eye and said "It's simple. I would never have been in it in the first place."

The flaw in your game is that you ended up in that situation in the first place, you need to either 1) win over the friend 100% or 2) get the number, roll off and move on. You will rarely be able to outmanouveur a defensive friend at the end of the game. You need to either disarm her early (and completely) or else remove her from the situation by having a day 2.
Author:  SimpleTwist [ Sun Mar 21, 2010 11:18 am ]
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This is a situation that reminds me of something and mentor of mine once said to me. I was in a tricky situation, torn between different people and the various promises I had made them, and I said to him...... James, how the hell would you get out of this situation.

He looked at me straight in the eye and said "It's simple. I would never have been in it in the first place."

The flaw in your game is that you ended up in that situation in the first place, you need to either 1) win over the friend 100% or 2) get the number, roll off and move on. You will rarely be able to outmanouveur a defensive friend at the end of the game. You need to either disarm her early (and completely) or else remove her from the situation by having a day 2.
yeah, true but the number thing is a problem. Most of the girls that I'd be into having a one-night stand, that night, I do not actually want their # because I have no intention of calling them.

whereas the absolute best girls, I really don't care about taking them home. # is enough because they are worth the time and effort.

I think there are 3 situations with friends that can mess it up:

1) the friend is looking out for the girl. This is less common than the others. But I guess it means the girl is has a serious boyfriend or husband or something.

2) the friend is very friendly with you also. The girl just doesn't want to look like a slut. Solution is to invite both girls up to your place. Like last time this happened (as per first example in original post). They were both in taxi outside my building. Solution: I could have invited both up and banged the girl I like. They would've come. Problem is, I have this psychological problem where I can only do that they re both attractive - dunno why.

3) the friend has the hots for you and is jealous and trying to stop you from getting anywhere with the target girl because of this. Solution same as in #2. Except @ your place, better bang the friend and do it first

but you are right, better to avoid this.
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