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Author:  Go [ Thu Feb 18, 2010 8:42 am ]
Post subject:  "cant meet up im with another boy in bed"

me: "when r we meeting up tonight"
her: "can't im with another boy in bed"

We were planning to meet up and then I get this text so I throw back a..

me: "a boy thats not me? i dont know if u heard but thats a crime in this city"
her: "<333"
me: "so when can we meet up so i can punish you"

Nothing back, we didn't meet up..

Anything better I could of said? Is this a shit test? if so, did I pass? What do I say to this girl now? and next time I see her?

Author:  The Bachelor's Code [ Thu Feb 18, 2010 2:45 pm ]
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Hahahahha holy shit man...that is funny.

So when you get into game you meet a lot of girls, you go through a lot of experiences good and bad. If you want some quick, general advice...figure out what works, and don't try to analyze things that don't.

So I would be willing to guess that this girl wasn't that into you, and there is nothing at this point that you could have said or done that would change anything. Don't bother analyzing the shit out of this text conversation, as funny as it is. It's not worth it....if you want advice on texting in general....less is more. Always wait longer than her to respond, and always leave her hanging. Don't do text conversations, your time should be more valuable than that. I have a 2 text rule. If a girl starts texting me, I wll respond to two texts max and then never respond to the third, even if it is a question. I just leave her hanging...

Hope this helps!

Author:  Smartbomb [ Thu Feb 18, 2010 3:49 pm ]
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That, was a major shit test son. You didn't do so well. Chances are nearly 100% that she wasn't actually in bed with anyone. Unless this girl has absolutely no filters, (which in itself would be pretty hot), most girls are not going to go bragging about their sexual conquests.

A better response would have been to neg her on her sluttiness without appearing weak. That turns her shit test back on herself while DHV'ing you for being witty and staying in the game. A good one that comes immediately to mind: "Sex with your uncle doesn't count"

Something like that. They just need to immediately roll off the tongue. It can't be needy or sour grapes like "Why with him not me" or "You looked like a slutty girl anyway." Just make it cocky/funny and get a rise out of her.

Author:  Go [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 7:47 am ]
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Thanks guys, great advice. This girl just didn't seem like the type of girl that negs work on so I didn't wanna push it.

Author:  loyalknicksfan [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:04 am ]
Post subject:  what you should've done

Its a shit test... whether she actually was with another boy or not, she wants to see the type of guy you are....

First of all, assuming she was with another boy (which is what she wants you to believe), you should be understanding.. you should give the impression of "doesn't matter who you sleep with, i don't know you that well, i just wanna hang out and have fun"... she wants to see if you get jealous easily and observe how you'd react to it... to show your not jealous, you basically just brush off what she said.. pretend like its absolutely no big deal (which it isn't) that she's in bed with someone... for example,

her: i am in bed with another boy.
u: lol.. i'll call you later on if i hear or something fun..

u see... Don't even acknowledge that she's in bed with another boy, because giving a shit so early in your relationship with her makes you come off as the possessive type.. and thats a disqualifier no matter how good your game is..

Author:  loyalknicksfan [ Wed Feb 24, 2010 8:08 am ]
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oh ya.. and DONT ever joke about girls being sluts.. its not a neg. In this case where theres some sort of half truth in it, it will work against you. She was shit testing to see how open minded and cool you are, not to see if you can be cocky and funny..

Author:  Rushbo [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 2:05 pm ]
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As the kids say... FAIL. Lmao...

No worries buddy, you lost this round but the war is far from over. Say this simple word to yourself without over thinking this one... NEXT! :D

Author:  pbcrazy9898 [ Mon Mar 01, 2010 7:07 pm ]
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i think You actually dodged a bullet. It would be weird having sex while she was texting

Author:  Jeremiah [ Thu Apr 22, 2010 9:39 am ]
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I'm sorry but if a bitch told me that then I would tell her you fkin hoe peace! No girl who is interested will ever tell you that. Its not a shit test, its a stupid girl letting u go.

Author:  Intensity [ Sat Apr 24, 2010 4:22 am ]
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Disregard what Jeremiah says, you haven't screwed the pooch until a girl either won't talk to you or says "no". Treat things like this like a shit test in the future, and remember:

"Make the hoe say no"

Author:  Conker [ Sat Apr 24, 2010 9:14 am ]
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"Cool, I have 2 girls under my arms right now - you both should join us so we can make it a 5-some"

BTW you said "when are we meeting tonight", no way. Since when does she decide what the both of you are going to do? You say "I'm free at X I'll meet you at Y", if she has a problem with it she will tell you, and you can come to an arrangement.

It would have been your behaviour leading up to this that lead to her blowing you off.

Author:  livininthemoment01 [ Tue May 11, 2010 7:02 am ]
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she either liked you and wanted to see if you were gonna get jelous, or diddnt like you and wanted to get rid of you.. 8)

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