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Imagine you're at a bar and a lot of people recognize you. You look confident and it's like you own the place. There are several girls trying to talk to you and you feel it: "this is gonna be my night!"

Well, this happened to me last week. I was the prize. It felt great, but there was only 1 girl that I was seriously interested in (HB8). We talked for hours and then she said: there are 2 girls looking at us all the time, I think they're jealous. We had a great time and we ended up making out again and again. She already talked about a day 2, she told me I'm a great kisser, at the end of the night she told me she wanted to see me again.

I texted her the next day, she replied, then I asked: what are you doing tomorrow and I got no reply.

I feel like she got her prize, she feels like she won and that's enough for her. Would you call this buyer's remorse? (I don't think so, because comfort was built, attraction was there...)

How to solve this? Has anybody ever experienced the same?

You were too happy to accept anything she had to offer. This is where being a tacky make out guy comes in. Which is a BIG turnoff. Be more challenging, make her beg. Here's the poo ah theory: cat string theory.
You give in too early she will get bored.

buyer's remorse is something completely different. (atleast not what you're describing)

Author:	SeductorEur [ Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:12 pm ]
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Imagine you're at a bar and a lot of people recognize you. You look confident and it's like you own the place. There are several girls trying to talk to you and you feel it: "this is gonna be my night!" Well, this happened to me last week. I was the prize. It felt great, but there was only 1 girl that I was seriously interested in (HB8). We talked for hours and then she said: there are 2 girls looking at us all the time, I think they're jealous. We had a great time and we ended up making out again and again. She already talked about a day 2, she told me I'm a great kisser, at the end of the night she told me she wanted to see me again. I texted her the next day, she replied, then I asked: what are you doing tomorrow and I got no reply. I feel like she got her prize, she feels like she won and that's enough for her. Would you call this buyer's remorse? (I don't think so, because comfort was built, attraction was there...) How to solve this? Has anybody ever experienced the same?

Author:	Jav [ Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:22 pm ]
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Quote: Imagine you're at a bar and a lot of people recognize you. You look confident and it's like you own the place. There are several girls trying to talk to you and you feel it: "this is gonna be my night!" Well, this happened to me last week. I was the prize. It felt great, but there was only 1 girl that I was seriously interested in (HB8). We talked for hours and then she said: there are 2 girls looking at us all the time, I think they're jealous. We had a great time and we ended up making out again and again. She already talked about a day 2, she told me I'm a great kisser, at the end of the night she told me she wanted to see me again. I texted her the next day, she replied, then I asked: what are you doing tomorrow and I got no reply. I feel like she got her prize, she feels like she won and that's enough for her. Would you call this buyer's remorse? (I don't think so, because comfort was built, attraction was there...) How to solve this? Has anybody ever experienced the same? You were too happy to accept anything she had to offer. This is where being a tacky make out guy comes in. Which is a BIG turnoff. Be more challenging, make her beg. Here's the poo ah theory: cat string theory. You give in too early she will get bored. buyer's remorse is something completely different. (atleast not what you're describing)

Author:	Cowboy_09 [ Thu Feb 18, 2010 12:19 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Imagine you're at a bar and a lot of people recognize you. You look confident and it's like you own the place. There are several girls trying to talk to you and you feel it: "this is gonna be my night!" Well, this happened to me last week. I was the prize. It felt great, but there was only 1 girl that I was seriously interested in (HB8). We talked for hours and then she said: there are 2 girls looking at us all the time, I think they're jealous. We had a great time and we ended up making out again and again. She already talked about a day 2, she told me I'm a great kisser, at the end of the night she told me she wanted to see me again. I texted her the next day, she replied, then I asked: what are you doing tomorrow and I got no reply. I feel like she got her prize, she feels like she won and that's enough for her. Would you call this buyer's remorse? (I don't think so, because comfort was built, attraction was there...) How to solve this? Has anybody ever experienced the same? You were too happy to accept anything she had to offer. This is where being a tacky make out guy comes in. Which is a BIG turnoff. Be more challenging, make her beg. Here's the poo ah theory: cat string theory. You give in too early she will get bored. buyer's remorse is something completely different. (atleast not what you're describing) Bro, do you find that if you make out with them too much in the club it ruins your chances of 1) Sex 2) A day two Its so tempting sometimes just to neck a girl when the offer is there, but its all about the long game

Author:	SmoothGrammar [ Thu Feb 18, 2010 10:30 pm ]
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Classic. I used to ask girls all the time what they were doing on a specific day like you did in this instance. I stopped asking girls this question because it gives them the option to ignore you in turn DLVing you. Remember, you are the prize. She is lucky and fortunate to have the opportunity to be with you. The way I found to get around this is stop asking, "What are you doing on ____?" Instead, I say something like, "You know, I'm gonna have fun doing activity X with so and so on this day. You can come if you want." And if she don't respond then i say something like, "...or not. Either way." Remember, if she doesn't take the opportunity you allow her to have then who cares? She's missing out on the good time you and your tribe is gonna have with or without her.

Author:	SeductorEur [ Sat Feb 20, 2010 1:34 pm ]
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A quick update. We've seen each other for 2 days in a row (only an hour though), and kissed a lot. We set up a "date" next week. I won't see her until then. I know she's meeting other guys as well, but I won't show any jealousy. How do I keep her warm and let her think about me in the meantime? I don't wanna be too clingy. Just do nothing and reply in case she contacts me?

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Author:	Honest Tom [ Thu Mar 04, 2010 10:48 am ]
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Hey Seductor My suggestion is just to call her and follow Mehow's Phone Game. Just call her and ask if she has a few minutes spare to talk? If she does, say something "cool I've got to go in like 2 or 3 minutes, I'm doing this/ my friends and I are going, but I'd thought i'd drop you a quick line....." Then just talk to her and end the conversation a few minutes later. Mehow recommends this as keeping her aware of you and you are not trying to arrange a d2 or be needy.

Author:	SeductorEur [ Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:37 pm ]
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I was looking at some of my old topics and look at how things are now. Well, I have this girl where I want: F-closed her and everytime we see each other (whenever I want) I can at least K-close her. This happened because I was focusing on other girls (and K-closed a close friend of hers) and didn't care about her anymore. Really strange: when you don't want a girl and don't care, she starts to like you even more. Also, in the beginning (when I was typing the opening post) she was almost a one-itis and I think I would even want a relationship with her. Now, just the thought of it makes me sick. I see all her annoying habits (too much maybe), but whatever... She's now just a FWB and that's fine. Mission accomplished. Cheers!

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