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Basic Information On Fellatio


Deep Throat Or Not To Deep Throat

Often people think that someone highly skilled in the art of fellatio will not only deep throat, but will do it for the entire length of the blow job. Nothing could be further from the truth. Of course if you are comfortable with it then by all means deep throat him during the course of oral sex, but if you are not using other techniques with your tongue, lips, hands and fingers then you are probably giving a rather boring blow job.

The pleasure created through deep throating is created by the uvula pressing the frenulum and gulping reactions perfectly massaging the corona. Translation- it is a snug, warm, wet environment... a most pleasureful place for a penis. The average depth of our mouth cavity is 3 - 4 inches and the average penis size is 5 – 6 inches, thus you can see the difficulty in getting a full penis in your mouth and down your throat.

This leads us to the breathing issue. If you are deep throating your partner, then you are most likely cutting off your air supply for certain amounts of time. Learning to breathe through your nose or taking breaks by using your hands is a good way to maintain the pleasureful flow of stimulation to his penis.



Gagging Remedies-

Some people have a hard time with controlling their gag reflex when giving head. It happens to even the skilled fellatio giver from time to time, so there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

Some people use Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel to numb the back of their throat and allow for easier deep throating and swallowing. Although psychologically letting go of the fear of gagging is really the best approach. Think about how sword swallowers get that blade down their throat... it certainly isn't by tensing their throat muscles!

Remember, a blow job should not just be up and down motions or about deep throating, it can have many facets to it, including licking, kissing, using your hands, and rubbing that delicious cock all over your face, neck, chest and elsewhere. This provides amazing visual stimulation as well as the pleasure of feeling his hard, pulsating cock all over you!



Communicate-

If he thrusts or pushes you down a bit onto him and you find yourself gagging, pull back up and pause to let him know that it is uncomfortable. If he does not clue in on this you can come up and begin using your hand to recuperate or let him know that you were beginning to hit the gag reflex a bit and you want to rest a minute while playing with his cock. He most likely will be happy you do this because the last thing a man wants is for you to throw up on him because you were too worried that he would not understand that his penis is going to hit the back of your throat from time to time and cause a gag reflex.

If you really have an issue with gagging, let him cum elsewhere whether in a condom, in your hands, on himself, inside you (vaginally or anally), on your chest or neck as you revel in it. The best thing to do to make your intentions known is to make a comment before or during oral sex to let him know where you want him to cum. You can make this sound really sexy if you say it with passion. For example- "I can't wait to feel you cum in between my breasts, I want to rub it all over me!"



Body Strategies-

Having him on his back allows you to better control his thrusting by using your forearms to push him down if he begins to thrust to a point that it is uncomfortable for you. You can also gently tug on his testicles as though you were pulling on the reins while riding a horse to let him know he needs to slow it down. Remember not to do this too hard, as you don't want to cause him pain... just enough to cause him to come back and allow you to avoid gagging.



Hand & Mouth-

One of the best ways to give oral sex is to also include your hands. Any porn actress will tell you that the following technique is a must when your mouth is tired, your gag reflex is getting triggered or he is well endowed and deep throating is a challenge.

Taking your hand, make a fist around the shaft of your lover's penis with your little finger resting on his pubic bone. Then at the same time take your mouth and go up and down the head and upper shaft of his penis while you go up and down with your hand at the same time. This gives the same sensation of you "deep throating" him (taking him deep into your throat). Adding different combinations with both hands, or your mouth make for creativity and fun!

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