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| Author: | ad [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Arranging a Day 2 |
I k-closed a hb9 last week, ever since, we've communicated through txt/msn, escalation is great, however, arranging a day two has been difficult. She often talks about me coming over to watch this movie with her, and everytime the situation is speculated more and more, however, when she asks me to suggest the date, she pushes it backwards, being busy and all. We're both busy people, however, would pushing it to next week kill the momentum? I can't help but feel that not balancing the technology-based interactions with real ones will dishevel proceedings, I'm trying to slow it all; she's chasing me. Should I take control and suggest something concrete, or what for our hypothetical day 2? |
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| Author: | Leeroy Jenkins [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 4:38 pm ] |
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pushing it back a week won't kill momentum, but what will kill it is constantly contacting her. you're acting needy, make her act needy. give her just enough attention through text/msn to let her know you're still interested but keep it to the bare minimum. arrange a concrete date, if she bails, reschedule one more time and be understanding. if she bails again then she's having second thoughts. at that point if you want to take drastic action then come back and ask for advice. |
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| Author: | ad [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:09 pm ] |
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thanks for the feedback; she's chasing me at the moment. i just need to make things concrete. i attend a gigantic college where people are constantly in-and-out the premises, so when i'm enjoying the company of my social group, maintaining DHV, i sense that i may be intimidating to approach, especially as she is the shy type of girl. would you recommend texting her, and spending time at college, in a context isolated from my social group? i often find that college and relationships don't co-operate. thoughts? |
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| Author: | Leeroy Jenkins [ Thu Feb 11, 2010 5:26 pm ] |
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typically college theory dictates you don't squat where you eat. i would avoid maintaining interactions with her at college unless you are looking for something serious with this girl. if the latter is the case simply go to the cafe and people watch. this is primetime to build rapport because you can use the people you see as a way to discuss things which are typically hard to talk when applied to you two. running mid game while in a group is bad news, its better to isolate and go in for the kill swiftly. no reason to play with your food. |
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