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| Author: | s1l3nced [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 2:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | One night stand (kind of) and now need advice! |
Hello all, I have a problem I need your advice for. there's a girl, 20, and me, 20. We've known of eachother for a while but never really hung out, but last weekend on saturday we ran into eachother, she came up hugged me had a beer with me, and i went to an afterparty where she was, and she was talking to me, telling me about her problems, and whatnot. next day we talk over MSN and we plan to get coffee. so i meet her there, hug her, we talk, i'm tryin to be really nice and sincere and smile and look happy go lucky so i'm sure it works because she's smiling and having a good time. we werent too awkward i think, i mean she might have stuttered a couple words but overall we hit it off alright. so we're standing outside havin a smoke and she invites me to bus around town (fun lol) and i agree, but then she has a better idea to bus to her place, and she can drive me home later! so on the way she's complimenting me on how i smell (so i take it as shes comfortable and this is possible IOI) so we head on over, she tours me of the place, we talk and hang out and then it turns into her asking what we should do, so i suggest a movie. we put on fight club (real romantic lol!) and we're both on the bed watching it. i slowly move in and get closer to her and act comfortable. eventually theres body contact so i kind of roll over and put my arm around her stomache. i just tickle it gently as we're watching the movie and my hand is kind of going up her shirt not too far. then i put my hand up a bit more and got close to her breasts, where she stopped me and was like "stop being bad" in a cute way, so i giggled and then she cuddled me and i spooned her. then i started massaging her, and that lead to her on her stomache, me giving her a full back massage. now earlier she mentioned sex stuff like how she likes it rough (she didnt say this directly, but she was saying something about biting during sex so i assumed she likes it rough) and so i put my hand on her neck with just a slight bit of pressure and she moaned, and then after that she admitted i was really good with my hands. but the weird part starts now! after all that, we start getting a bit more intimate, but every 2 minutes or so she pulls back and is like saying how she doesnt want this to lead into anything, and that theres no physical chemistry.. (as in shes not attracted to me?) and that her lifes a bit messed right now, and all this other stuff.. so i tell her it's okay if she wants to stop. but, i end up touching her some more, and she goes forth with it, and leads right into sex. and she's loving it, but then we randomly stopped, and she stopped and then we were fooling around and whatnot, (It was really random) and she eventually just said she cant do it anymore, and was saying how like shes kind of dissappointed in herself, and all that. now im sorry this is such a long read, but i figured i'd be more accurate with my story.. so, what do i take this as? because based off my facts.. she complimented me, invited me to her place (meaning shes gotta be comfortable) and she also knew it was going to be a long night, because i met up with her at 10pm.. (last night) until 4am! .. so even smaller facts compliments me, invites me over, comfortable has sex with me, admits theres no attraction, doesnt want awkwardness what do i do from here? leave it at that? let her come back if she wants? or do i msg/call her in a week or so to ask how she's been? |
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| Author: | Leeroy Jenkins [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 2:45 am ] |
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try hitting her |
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