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| Author: | Mr. LongBottom [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | SuperBowl Flake, Need Help. |
Situation: Last week I Kiss-Closed an HB8 who I had been gaming for about 2 weeks. We chit-chatted, I learned about her and her about me blah blah blah. Turns out she's going through a rough break up (Yeah right, and your making out with me on my bed at 3am after breaking up 2 days prior). Anyways, I pay no mind and think that I'm controlling the situation...which I was. She leaves my house roughly around 5am and the next morning I my Frame of Reference is significantly confident and my Ego was large enough to float me to the moon. So, I waited till that afternoon and I texted her.....No Response. The next day, I texted her......No Response. I saw her on FB, her status update said some Crazy sad shit that was too long to copy/paste here about this dude she broke up with. I think I acted like an AFC because I posted some Stewie Griffin thing on her wall just to get her fuckin attention, but all she did was put ":) lmao!!". I text her again the next day....No Response. Fast Forward 3 days, and it's Super Bowl Sunday. My families having the annual SB BBQ, and she texts me out of no where. *********TEXT************ HB8: I'm not lost!!!! Just havent been wanting to talk to anyone Me:(Mind you, this reponse was from a text 3 days prior...so I was like WTF??) I understand, what you're going through is tough. I know something that will take your mind off of things, it works for me. (<-- Was given to me by a fellow member here on the site. Thank you) HB8: What? lol Me: BBQ at my house for the SuperBowl, being with people makes you feel better HB8: What time? I work till 8 Me:(Thinking she was obviously interested, and getting my hopes up for a SuperBowl Lay Report) That's cool, just call me when you get out ****************************** Fast Forward to 8:20pm My freinds and family are there, everyone's watching the Half Time show. I havent received a call or text from her, and I know she lives somewhat far from her job. So I wait till about 8:30, thinking I could catch her at the right time to ask her when she was coming. ***Me: Hey No F***ing Response.....nothing all night.....not even today.... My next step is to stop talking to her all together, and if she texts me to not respond for a few days. What do you guys think? and Critique me please.... |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 7:56 pm ] |
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I'd say that she's being very rude. If she agrees on coming over and then ONCE again doesn't either text and/or reply to your texts, that's just a lack of respect. HOWEVER, you must still see this through her perspective. After all, she's going through something that she calls a "rough break-up"... So whatever you do, don't really "attack" her about this whole flakiness. Just tell her something in the lines of: Look, I realize you're going through a break-up and it must be really hard for you. I'm just gonna give you space now, because nothing else that I've been trying seems to help. I wish you all the best. Bye. Then freeze out.... Or rather, just give her space. Be respectful about her situation and just keep your distance (for now). |
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| Author: | Mr. LongBottom [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 8:11 pm ] |
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Thanks Zealot. Freezing Out didn't even cross my mind. I'll definetly respect her, I'm not one to attack a girl for flaking. If they don't show up, it's her loss not mine. |
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| Author: | chazman0426 [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 3:50 am ] |
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Dude just disappear/freeze out for like a month or for good or however long it takes. I doubt it would take a month but if you just don't respond anymore and act busy and give false time constraints when/if she does for maybe a week or two it'll work wonders. I would think it would under PUA theory and just in general how girls work. The best solution a lot of times is just to go away for a while. |
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