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| Author: | Zadaaam [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO? |
Ok, so here is the story. I met this girl two weeks ago when we were on a weekend trip with a bunch of students. On that trip i spent a night together with this girl. Before that we had danced the night together and some nice kino stuff after the bar. We didnt have sex that night because there was a another guy sleeping next to us in like 3 feet away. We´ve met after that a couple of times by chance at our university and been playing text game during the past few days. Yesterday she called me and invited me up to her place to hang out. We watched a movie and I did some kino but what really bothers me is that I DIDNT EVEN MANAGE TO KISS CLOSE. I know i definitely might have blown it and Im not having very high hopes but what should I do to try to save the situation now. I think my inability to kiss or f-close is partly due cause there was such a big gap between our first night so it was slightly awkward to try to "rush with things". Should I try to arrange a meeting asap to find out if I still got hope with this girl? I´m planning to call her tonight and ask if she wants to hang out on wednesday. The reason I wanna call her so quick is to keep her interested even though I was such a pussy yesterday. In general these " Day 2 " seem to be the biggest problem for me, I have no trouble getting girls interested and number closing but taking it on from there is not exactly my strenght. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 6:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
hello there is still time to save it, and the only way to save it is through a day 2 so its time to man up! just kidding in a day 2, it is hard to get the same vibe as when you first met. when you first met you guys prob had a few drinks, dancing, kino all that stuff (sounds like it!) but if you day 2 in a coffee shop or something there will be a deffinate change in how she acts. now, there is no way you can really get that same vibe back sorry to say it but..its gonna be a little different. if you try and act the same you will just look a little creepy trying to bring back that vibe but you could since you didnt kclose her though..it will be hard. if you had k-closed her before, you could bring back that feeling and just kiss her some what fast within seeing her again. but you havnt.. in this case, i would actually take a whole different approach. i would instead of bringing big kino back instantly, take her out and try and connect with her on a comfort level. have a good time talking, go hang out, and if you have a good amount of time with her kino later and push for the kiss later. lets say you go downtown during the day time, you get coffee, talk and get food aswell, and just walk around and shop around. that would be when you make a good connection, show her you have a personality. later if you guys are still hanging out and having a good time, try and take things to a more private place, and thats when you take it back to kino. after you have built the comfort, try and work your way back with kino and at this point you will be able to make the kiss all this is hard to do...MUCH easier said then done, but i have done it plently of times, when i relized there was no way to bring back the night before, you need to show that you are still worth talking to and still worth her time through connecting with her and building comfort mR.e |
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| Author: | Zadaaam [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 6:53 pm ] |
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Thanks Mr.E! Do you think I should try to arrange day 3 asap? |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
why not right? text her a little have fun and set up a day during this week. when you set it up, call her, it will make it a set and stone plane when you call, texting can get weird good luck man, just remember make it fun, comfort and relate, and then try and switch it up later when you guys are laughing and having a good time mR.e |
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| Author: | Zadaaam [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 9:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: hm |
Quote: why not right? text her a little have fun and set up a day during this week. when you set it up, call her, it will make it a set and stone plane when you call, texting can get weird
Thanks for taking time to reply, mate!
good luck man, just remember make it fun, comfort and relate, and then try and switch it up later when you guys are laughing and having a good time mR.e |
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| Author: | Zadaaam [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 4:53 pm ] |
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I tried to call her once yesterday but she didnt pick up. Today I saw her walking by (Im sure she noticed me) and she didnt even say "hi". Is it game over now or what? |
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| Author: | Leeroy Jenkins [ Fri Feb 12, 2010 3:29 am ] |
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go caveman club her, and drag her back home by her hair. however if you happen to live somewhere where that is illegal then you are now in hail mary land. your inibility to maintain interest has placed you in limbo where the incidental interest from the weekend off that had previously overrode her better judgement before has evaporated, leaving her feeling awkward and wondering "what the fuck was i thinking" this is how it stands right now, when she's outside of her routine and normal life her expectations are different and crazy things can happen, like being interested in you. however when she gets back into her everyday life with her everyday expectations you fall into a weird territory where you become a regret. your only option is to break the image of you that she currently has in her mind. you know, this reminds me a lot like going to Costco, or Priceclub, w/e its called. you go to this massive place where things are copletely different and you're walking down the aisles when suddenly you see a sample booth with a cracker with a piece of crab meat on it and you think to yourself "hey, look at that cracker with crab meat on it, i might as well taste it, i'm here, and its only a sample so its not like it costs me anything" then in real life you would never buy crab meat and put it on a cracker because that's just stupid. that's you, you're a cracker with crab meat on it. stop being the cracker with crab meat on it, next time you see her be assertive, change your personality drastically, be cocky/funny and neg her hardcore. MOST IMPORTANTLY KINO, kino kino kino, show her that you can be sexually interesting. be spontanious and say somethign like "i'm bored, lets go somewhere" and walk somewhere secluded. if you somehow miraculously managed to charm her, and she is responsive to the kino... if that was tl;dr for you then heres the sum be completely different than how you were acting before. meet her, and run risky game, take chances, let there be no bones about it that you want to to fuck her silly and you don't give a fuck if she knows it. |
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| Author: | mR.e [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 7:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | hm |
game over? nonsense mate go up and just act like she is happy to see you (BE excited to see her, say something about maybe hangin out and say you have to go) mR.e |
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