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| Author: | jimbobday [ Sun Feb 07, 2010 11:40 pm ] |
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Ok not to sure where this should be posted but I can't post in relationship forum as I don't have enough posts. Got two questions here. First of a little background. Broke up with my ex around 3 months ago and am now completely and utterly over her but would still like to have her as an FB. So she contacts me the other day after no contact for 3 months and just starts chatting away and a few days later professes how much she misses me and so on. So I have been running my game as portraying I'm a high value busy guy now with many options of women to go for. I'm guessing this is the right sort of game to play? (She even tried to get me to come out to town with her in the weekend but I was offline - as we only chat on msn). Now in theory she should be pretty easy to turn into an FB as we have been in the past a long time ago. Second question is I got a shit test that I really did not know the best answer for. I was portraying myself as a high value male and she was asking why I didn't get back to her in the weekend. I said she should have just text me as I don't go on msn in the weekend. Then she said that I would probably be to busy to see her anyway. I said yea probably and just shrugged it off. But not sure if that was the best way to deal with it? suggestions? |
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| Author: | CroPua [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:02 am ] |
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with that you kinda showed her like you are not interested in meeting her... But you can fix it by saying something like "you will finally have weekend for yourself and you wont be so busy as usually"... I think she will try again to ask you same shit and then "give her chance" to meet 
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Mon Feb 08, 2010 2:34 am ] |
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Cheers man. I slipped the fact that I finally have a free weekend next weekend into the conversation. |
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 7:37 pm ] |
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Well that worked a charm she asked me out to lunch today. So I'm thinking kino the fuck out of her today but don't k-close because I can't isolate. Then play a bit of hard to get a make my self scarce so she really has to work for it. Thoughts? Its worked in the past as long as I build up enough initial attraction |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 8:04 pm ] |
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Play hard now, go for the lunch and if you can K close do it, if you wana bang her that is! Don't kiss to much if you get the chance, leave her hanging. Keep DHV'ing yourself how you are, she'll be crazy over you man! |
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| Author: | CroPua [ Tue Feb 09, 2010 9:20 pm ] |
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from now on, it should be easy... Just play it cool and not needy, but kino her and DHV yourself... DLV-ing, neging etc is not necessarily since she is the one who is interested so your value is already higher, she will try to impress you and you dont show that you are impressed even if you are... play it cool and GL
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 1:33 am ] |
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Stage 1 complete. Got complete power to (she drove out to my work and brought me lunch and now says I'm the only one that can make her happy). K-Closed definitely attraction there with plenty of flirting but she still has a few trust issues around the breakup but ill get rid of those. Onto stage 2 
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 9:24 am ] |
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Just let her wait, make sure your alpha here, keep in control of yourself, and you direct this where and when you want the majority of the time. Push and Pull! |
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 10:06 am ] |
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Cheers man. Exactly what I had planned (same way I got her before). Unfortunately she only contacts me on msn so was gonna stay offline till Monday. Then go from there. She's convinced she isn't attracted to anyone now but I could tell today she definately was just by the flirting that was going on. From there I will just tell her I'm busy next time she asks to meet up and suggest another day. |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 3:13 pm ] |
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She would say that because she doesn't want to seem to keen. She's testing you man! |
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| Author: | CroPua [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 5:59 pm ] |
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Quote: She would say that because she doesn't want to seem to keen. She's testing you man!
exactly shit test...best would be if you answered her "me neither" and fast switched to another subject 
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Wed Feb 10, 2010 7:47 pm ] |
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Yea failed that shit test just said "oh yea" and quickly changed subject. But its cool we live and we learn. Cheers for all the help guys should just have to remain alpha here and the rest will be easy as her emotions are running wild.
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Sun Feb 14, 2010 11:32 pm ] |
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Ok so it hasn't been going so well. She now says that she doesn't get jealous over me anymore (Obviously an IOD). So just gonna leave her for about a week then pick it back up. Any other tips? or advice? |
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Tue Feb 16, 2010 11:49 pm ] |
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New mission is to isolate (Sick of just meeting up for lunch and if I'm not careful will get into friend zone, Even though we kiss etc). So to do this going to not speak to her till Friday afternoon then say I'm busy all weekend but have saturday night free, take her out have a good time then isolate and close. |
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| Author: | jimbobday [ Sun Feb 21, 2010 1:45 am ] |
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Mission abort. Didn't manage to build up enough attraction in time then went completely afc. Could isolate before I went afc either. Should have been easy but think she was just after validation more than anything |
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