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| Author: | ImAwesome [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 7:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HB giving IoI's but she's going on a "date" |
First off, l've been a member for a while and have made a couple post. However, I have a situation that I need a little advice on. I greatly appreciate any help being that I'm still practicing and learning. There is a girl I have known a few months now. I wasn't interested in her at first because she is a bit younger than me, but I still wanted to work on my skills some. I met her through work; she would come in with a friend of hers while I was working at night. I usually was kinda funny in a sarcastic way I guess cocky/funny, so eventually we exchanged info and I invited her and her friend out to go to the club to sing karaoke ( that is something I do for fun ). They accepted and we had a really good time (upbeat and fun). That lead to BOTH of them hanging out the last two weeks or so at my place just chillin and having a few drinks and such. I also was really upbeat and myself just having fun, they also had lots of fun. Since then she has said she wants to chill "on the regular" I have since became interested in her. Me and the "target" have hung out one-on-one a couple times, and she's given me some IOI's basically through body language such as playing with hair, figeting, lot's of eye contact, touchy-feely in convos with me. Also,when she would come over she would start straightening things up and did the couple dishes I had in the sink. She also left her ipod and docking station at my place. I also caught the JEALOUSY look when her friend gave me a big hug when I stopped by to see the "Target" at her work. While hanging out we discussed several different things, one of which was age difference ( there was some creep who asked her out and was like 17 years older). I'm 9 years older at 29, but in a separate conversation she indicated that 29 was not to old. I'm not sure about the age difference because the context of the convo was not about her and I hanging out. Anyway she had a couple of stressful days and was acting kind of short with everyone, including me. While hanging out, her friend mentioned she had a "Date". So I asked the "target" in a playful way what "kinda hot evening she had planned". She played it off like it wasn't nothing but the same old "dinner and a movie date" (she had previously mentioned to me that she doesn't like going to the movies). That was last night. I called her out on being short with me, and she apologized saying she was having a bad couple of days. She had previously said we need to hang out again soon which was after about three days since the last time. So today I set it up where just me and her are going to go out Friday. I didn't tell her what we are doing just that we are going out. She agreed with no hesistation except that she may have to babysit, to which I replied "Tell them you can't". She smile and said OK. I plan to have dinner somewhere, but then go do a couple things one of which is something she told me before that she likes doing. I do know she is excited about the date she has with what's-his-name. EXPERT OPINION NEEDED: My question is this: Based on what I have described, is she interested, and how I do I go about countering her date with what's-his-name? Do I even bring up her other date, like asking if she had a good time? There was some mild kino, but did I take to long to escalate? ALL CRITIQUES ARE WELCOME |
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| Author: | Misfit [ Wed Feb 03, 2010 10:41 pm ] |
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Bro, I am sad to report that you probably waited too long. You should have made your first move on karaoke night. Since you passed that up you should have made your first move when she helped you clean your place, or said something after she gave you the stare. Now you are in the friend zone. Since you have ignored all her signals you might have blown your chance. There is one thing you might be able to do. Tell her that you want her supper alpha style. Take her out, and let her know. Other wise you have blown your chance, If he fucks her before you then it is over for you and you will start to see less and less of her. Take it with a grain of salt though, there are more out there...-J |
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| Author: | ImAwesome [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 1:11 pm ] |
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Thanks for the response and the insight. I had the feeling that I should have moved quicker, but that's why I'm here  . I already planned to make my move on OUR "date", of course in an ALPHA way while minimizing the AFC tendencies.....ANY suggestions on how to go about doing that? What to avoid ect... |
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| Author: | samex [ Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:03 am ] |
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Make it or break it... That will be theme for you this friday. On this date, I want you to be yourself, because what your already doing has attracted her and made her feel comfortable...one problem with I just said, being yourself hasn't gotten you the results you've wanted so when you go out, your going to be a sexier version of yourself. The fact that she is very comfortable with you, will allow you to take about sexual things a lot easier. I recommend you do this as this will have the effect of her thinking about sex while she is with you... ...and touch more...During your date, you want her to think that fucking you is a possibility tonight, but she doesn't know that until she is back at your place... You gotta figure out what the motive is going to be for going back to your place, a suggestion would be to maybe catch a late movie at your house(i know she hates movies, but if she accepts this, then your in for sure, as she is willing to do something she doesn't like for YOU)... Best of luck, and have fun let us know how it goes... PS: Reading your post, this girl is totally into you, your overthinking this situation. Trust me
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