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HAVE NUMBER! SHE'S GIVING IOI'S... NOW WHAT?
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Author:  Crazy Legs [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 5:23 am ]
Post subject:  HAVE NUMBER! SHE'S GIVING IOI'S... NOW WHAT?
I got this girls number after playing a gig in a club. She seemed really interested when I asked for the number and asked for mine as well. Unlike a lot of number closes that I can calmly deal with, I'm very excited about this one. She says she's free this weekend and wants to hang out. It's been 3 days.

Should I have called her? Should I wait and see if she pursues for the weekend? Or should I come up with an excuse to call her and hope it turns into definite weekend plans?

At a loss on how to play this right. Please help.
Author:  kasabi [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 5:42 am ]
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Call her 3 days ago. She ain't calling you.
Author:  Crazy Legs [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 5:46 am ]
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shoot did I already lose this one?
Author:  Little Panda [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 12:26 pm ]
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shoot did I already lose this one?
Well... Either you give up now and don't call at all. Or you just pick up the fucking phone and give it a shot. If it fails - move on.

But the true losers are the ones that give up.
Author:  kasabi [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 2:08 pm ]
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shoot did I already lose this one?
Sorry . . . "call her 3 days ago" just meant "there is no such thing as calling her too early . . . "

And no . . . you didn't lose or gain anything. Just call her up and offer her some fun.
Author:  Chillburg [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 2:30 pm ]
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shoot did I already lose this one?
Sorry . . . "call her 3 days ago" just meant "there is no such thing as calling her too early . . . "

And no . . . you didn't lose or gain anything. Just call her up and offer her some fun.
Indeed, you dont have to wait before you call her or text her. I dont know why this is such an accepted idea in the community, it makes no sense (fuck pretending to be busy to DHV, you know you will always find 2 minutes in your day to make a call/send a text).

You didnt lose her, call her and say that you were a little busy before, or not, it doesnt really matter lol, just make the damn call bro!
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Sat Jan 30, 2010 2:03 am ]
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The 3 day waiting rule is a common AFC belief. You want to set up your game so she'll hit you up that night or the next day but if not there's no reason not to call her. Do you want the girl to be questioning your sincerity for those three days, or be excited that you called her in the first 24hrs and that you were real about things.
Don't play games. Play THE game. THE game is about being real, but not setting yourself up to be let down, and finding out what you really want in a relationship with someone.
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