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| Author: | redroooster [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Social Proof Trap - how do I treat her? |
Hi I've organized a social proof trap where I am inviting a girl I like to an event where I know loads of people and get tonnes of people wanting to meet me. Question is how do I treat her? Do I spend the whole time with her, or introduce her to other people - do my thing and catch up with her? Thanks |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:45 pm ] |
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Hmm tough one. I usually introduce a girl shortly (not that i ever did a trap like this, but I mean more like when I take a girl out and i know some people there). Thing is: they can say something like "oh so this is the girl you've been teling me about" or "is this the hot girlfriend you were talking about". If you do get caught up in a conversation with friends, make sure you involve her in the conversation. I'd go for the short introducing. If you leave her alone too much, other guys will game her. Even if your game is superb, it saves you some time bouncing those guys out (verbally mind you) alpha style. A good move for you, if you really get a lot of people coming up to you/if you run into a lot of people you know, is to say something like "oh shit I didnt know that many friends were here, lets go sit over there so I have some time to get to know you " something like that, so you can isolate her after the social proof DHV. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 1:01 am ] |
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Spend time with her. Don't make her feel left out but don't cling to her if she can hang. This is what I normally do as a day2 because I am looking for a girl who can socialize. I hate going out and having to babysit. If she starts getting lonely, you will have to babysit or break her out of her shell enough to get friendly with everyone else. But the fact is, you're taking her there so you need to be a good host. Make her feel welcome and included. |
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| Author: | redroooster [ Sun Jan 24, 2010 10:58 am ] |
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thanks |
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