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| Author: | GvCIA [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 2:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I think I forgot a MAJOR phone rule... |
I got this really cute girls number off POF, we were talking and I was just trying to get a date out of her but then she went on to say how she doesn't trust guys and blah blah, by the time I could cut her off politely and retain control of the conversation, I realized like a freaking hour or 2 had gone by. Things turned mildly steamy on the phone, so I don't think I fucked up that badly, but she wants me to call her again after work. What should I do? If I don't call her I feel I'll loose Comfort I'd built with her last night, if I do I don't wanna seem like a "friend" because I definately have a chance to bag her right now. Ideas? |
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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 5:28 pm ] |
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Hey man, you're already on the comfort phase( if you study love systems). This is the point where you should decrease the amount of teasing, cocky&funny, to a half or even less. If you feel that her attraction is slipping away, feel free to give a little bit of teasing and bantering, but just enough to make her excited. So, call her if you can, if you can't, you can do it another time. No rush Best pal, Steven 
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| Author: | RamboBlack [ Wed Jan 20, 2010 7:58 pm ] |
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Use my method, wait 24 hours then call her the next evening. Tell her you were busy and make your self sound important to increase your DHV. |
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| Author: | asdf000 [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:22 am ] |
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i believe you aren't supposed to build comfort on the phone for one reason-that you can't kino, while youre building comfort. i think i read somewhere that if you build comfort without any kino, youre going to get ljbf'ed. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:45 pm ] |
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This girl doesn't trust guys-that's the real issue at hand here. If you're actually interested in her then call her. Calling her after work is a sign that you're actually interested, plus it's what you said you'd do. She's screening you for habits of untrustworthiness. Prove yourself. |
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| Author: | Chillburg [ Sat Jan 23, 2010 10:52 pm ] |
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Quote: This girl doesn't trust guys-that's the real issue at hand here. If you're actually interested in her then call her. Calling her after work is a sign that you're actually interested, plus it's what you said you'd do. She's screening you for habits of untrustworthiness.
a combination of this, and this:Prove yourself. Quote: i believe you aren't supposed to build comfort on the phone for one reason-that you can't kino, while youre building comfort. i think i read somewhere that if you build comfort without any kino, youre going to get ljbf'ed.
1. Call her2. Keep it short 3. Arrange a meeting 4. ???? 5. Profit! |
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