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Author:  GQute [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 3:45 am ]
Post subject:  Day 2... A month later??

Technically, this would be a day 3, but you get the just. Short story: met hb8, k-close same night, had great day 2, then went on month long break where we didnt see each other. kept up intermittent contact, haven't had contact in the past week and a half. We will be returning from break in a week. And I want to set up a day 2 now, for when we get back.

Any pointers as to what the best way to for me to set up a day 2 is after we've been apart for a month?

Thanks for the help,
~GQute

Author:  Chief [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 3:31 pm ]
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Barring extraneous factors like her being in a new exclusive relationship and other gay shit like that, she should be more than willing to see you again for a day 3 if she thinks the day 2 was as fun as you thought it was. Don't plan the day 3 too ahead of time, though. That places too much importance on the date.

I once had a day 3 several weeks after my day 2 with a girl. Sounds kinda similar to your situation. Here's the Lay Report if you want to read the whole thing: lr-time-is-the-obstacle-vt25166.html?highlight=

On the day 3 I made up for lost time by multi-threading so much that I almost lost track of a lot of my conversational threads lol

Author:  GQute [ Tue Jan 12, 2010 7:36 pm ]
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Quote:
...Here's something new: this was the first time I heavily experimented with Vin DiCarlo's "Objection Game" material. In our conversations, I told stories that indirectly demonstrated that I'm not the type of guy to kiss and tell. Objection Game is based on the theory that women crave sex but are forced to repress their desires due to consequences that society bestows upon them. The theory says that if you remove these perceived consequences, the path to the full-close can fully open even without building attraction. I'm pretty sure I played pretty solid attraction game, anyway, though...

... All these health issues forced me into a complete social withdrawal for several weeks. I become worried that the possibility for a day 3 to full-close would go stale....

... Surprisingly, after I fully recover, she's still up for meeting up with me again. Looks like my game was solid enough on the day 2 to time bridge again. That's a long-ass time bridge.

To make up for lost time, I multi-threaded like a MADMAN. It was getting difficult to catch up with myself when I was opening a shit-ton of new threads while closing some of them as I went along. I found sanity by tying several of the threads together to make them relate to each other. I exposed some embarrassing vulnerabilities that I wouldn't disclose on an online forum (lol) to build more rapport with her. I guess the overall theme ended up becoming South Park somehow. It turns out she never saw the South Park movie. Fortunately, I have it on my laptop. Plausible deniability, check....
There were two things that I found really interesting with your lay report (quoted above) that I was hoping you could expand on. One, was the "objection game", was this in a book, or somewhere else, because I would like to look into it? The second, and this may sound somewhat AFC, but if you were basicly confined to your home for weeks, what did you have to keep stacking with, did you just use a bunch of routines?

Finally just a question about your response, you talked about the timing of setting things up so that it doesn't look as if I'm placing too much importance on the date, so I have to ask: I was thinking about either setting it up before we get back or waiting until a couple days after we get back, any opinion on which is better for setting things up - mind you that if I wait until we get back we will not have talked for over 2 weeks?

Thanks,
~GQute

Author:  Chief [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 3:57 am ]
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I normally arrange my day 2s a couple days before or even the day before.

Objection Game is a bonus mini-ebook that you get when you buy The Attraction Code ebook. The main thing that I do nowadays in terms of objection game is to let the girl know that I'm a discreet guy who doesn't kiss and tell.

I was multi-threading with a bunch of random bullshit conversational topics off the top of my head, not stacking any pre-scripted routines. Just stay in the present moment and you'll find that being spontaneous is easy.

Author:  GQute [ Wed Jan 13, 2010 7:14 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice chief, that should end up being pretty useful. I have another situation, however that goes right along with this that I'm open to anyone's suggestions. Another girl that I met before break that I havent been on a day 2 with yet, but I have k-closed. Its her birthday tomorrow, and I would also like to look at setting a day 2 up with her as well when we get back. Should I attack this differently, or what?

Any suggestions are appreciated,
~GQute

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