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| Author: | Shockard [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:14 pm ] |
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I gamed this HB7.5 in a club where I had to shout into her ear everything I needed to say, lots of kino from that. It was my first time gaming by the way. Here's what happened: HB7.5 was sitting alone with her HB7 friend sitting to her left 2 chairs way, I had no idea why there an empty seat in between. Anyway, I entered with an opinion opener from her right (i should have went to the empty seat). I got her to introduce me to her HB7 friend then the set was opened. I then went on to a 'best friend's test', got a little giggles. I then jumped to a kino test by asking for her hands for a number read which I got wrong. But I could tell she wasn't at all disturbed by the fact that I was a touchy guy. Long story short, a couple of her friends came back and I also got her to introduce me to them. I was running out of material, so I ejected by saying I need to get back to my friends and got a number exchange. Day 2: She texts me HB7.5: "Shockard?" I wait for 10 minutes then and text her Shockard: "Yea, what's up?" HB7.5: "I'm just bored, sorry for disturbing you. Cya" Okay, wtf? Shockard: "Nah, you aren't disturbing me, how long you gonna stay here?" (she told me she wasn't local) HB7.5: "I am gonna stay for 1 more week, what are you doing now?" Shockard: "Having dinner with my friends. You wanna come out on sunday? There's this movie I really want to watch" Then she stopped replying. I believe I screwed up with my last message because I didn't build up enough comfort. What is everyone's opinion? This was my first number close in a club environment, and I had to screw up my day 2. The rest of my closes are in school where it's easier to ask for day 2. Cheers. |
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| Author: | SlickRick [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 7:08 pm ] |
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this is just my opinion but it sounds like she wasnt looking for a date...when a girl ask's "what you are doing Now?" usually means just that... shes bored and if from out of town possibly looking for a good time and some ass. The movies probably came off very AFC and even a waste of her time considering she can see a movie anywhere. You probably would've been better off saying something like "a little busy at the moment but i'll be free a little later if you wanna have some fun." |
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| Author: | Crush [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 7:16 pm ] |
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Slick's advice sounds good. Style always says, if you reach a dead end, it's probably because you screwed up earlier. It may be that you didn't DHV enough when you met, or perhaps you made a bad impression with her friends. Most likely, however, I think it's because you invalidated your interest by asking her to a movie. On top of being the most AFC thing ever (ty slick), it also has "date" written all over it. This probably made her think "oh, this guy wants to makeout at a movie" or "this guy wants some ass." Either of these could have made her uncomfortable. You want her to believe you're interested in her as a unique person. Not as a pussy. Plus, asking her out is obviously DLV (generally). I would have picked something unique to your town ("oh, you've NEVER had Restaurant X? You're gonna miss out on the town if you don't try it!") or just DHV'd by saying you were indeed busy but if she wanted to have fun, you might be able to fit her in later. my 2 cents. |
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| Author: | jinla [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:47 pm ] |
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yeah the movie thing killed it. Even i got bored. |
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| Author: | BlackBull [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 11:01 pm ] |
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Quote: You wanna come out on sunday?
That killed it.Had you rephrased "Hey,Let's hang out sunday,you're probably have nothing to do then anyway".,this would be a different story. It's not what you say...It's how you say it. NEVER...start with "You Wanna...?". That gives her power to say no. |
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| Author: | iam fuzz [ Fri Aug 31, 2007 11:09 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: You wanna come out on sunday?
That killed it.Had you rephrased "Hey,Let's hang out sunday,you're probably have nothing to do then anyway".,this would be a different story. It's not what you say...It's how you say it. NEVER...start with "You Wanna...?". That gives her power to say no. -fuzz |
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| Author: | AceSpade [ Sat Sep 01, 2007 3:04 am ] |
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Haha reminds me when i messed up with the only 9.5 i ever hooked up with. She texted you brah! she wanted some dick, but you made her feel like you wanted more :-/. What are you doing now, should be followed by: "Busy, Taking care of ______________." or whatever. If she's out of town, it means one thing, she wants dick. so it should be followed by: "Just hanging, wanna chill?" or something to that extent |
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| Author: | Shockard [ Sat Sep 01, 2007 4:17 am ] |
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The advices have been great! Thanks guys! Off topic for a bit here. When is the right time to isolate my target? And when I was gaming for the first time, it seems as if I couldn't register any IOIs she was giving, is this common for newbies? |
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| Author: | vash [ Sat Sep 01, 2007 5:15 am ] |
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it takes time and a good eye, but when leading her astray make sure your in good with the group first |
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