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Author:  SeductorEur [ Wed Dec 30, 2009 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Day 2 at her place, but she has a BF
So this colleague of mine (she's 27, HB7, I'm 23) and I have been flirting around for a couple of months. Making eye-contact, some light kino etc. Never a real conversation until yesterday: altough it was on messenger, we talked about everything. She told me she could see other female colleagues like me and we kept on flirting. She was telling she wanted to see a specific movie on dvd, I was playful and told her we're gonna watch it next week. It started playful, but she's serious about it, gave me her number and we're gonna meet for the movie at her place. She lives 2 hours away by the way. And she's dating someone.
What should I do? I'm going to her place, assume she'll be alone (lol), watch the movie, have fun, use kino, try to kiss her and hope she's not gonna give me the "I have a bf" thing.
On the other hand, she would not invite me if she wasn't interested in me. The best thing would be if I'd kiss her straight away.
Hope you have some suggestions. Thanks.
Author:  D-Clev [ Thu Dec 31, 2009 2:23 am ]
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It is obvious she is interested in you. Now is your chance to take advantage of the situation. If any women with a bf invites you to her house for a movie she wants to get to know more about you. Now you show her. Prove to be better then her bf without bringing up her boyfriend. Make her tell you "omg my bf never says that to me", off to massage her back say you took some lessons at your gym. Guarenteed she will let you (all girls like massages even married ones). BOOM instant kino.

Dont go straight for the kiss. The aggressiveness will make her regret the situation and think of her bf. Be pervasive and persuasive at the same time. You have something she wants but dont give it all to her.

Hope this little bit of advice helps
Author:  SeductorEur [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 8:41 pm ]
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Thanks for your reply. Quick update:
I texter her if (last) Saturday was ok. No reply. I texted her again about work and she replied straight away, apologizing for not coming back to me ("forgot") and she said "other day?"
I texted her back: wednesday? Then no reply and one day later an e-mail: "forgot again :) (truth? playing her game as well???), wednesday's fine with me."
Today some chit chat (messenger) about work, little playful, she mentioned her bf once, I ignored it, that's it, we didn't talk about wednesday.

I have the feeling the original excitement/tension is gone and she might realize she doesn't want to risk losing her 5 years relationship. Do you think I should just cancel the thing, have some morale and focus on other girls?
Author:  Randomly [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 10:31 pm ]
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Hi,

I would at this point forget about it and move on.
She's just playing games with you at this point.

If you still think there is a chance for something i think this is the perfect time for a freeze out.

So at the end it is a personal choice wich i cant make for you.
I hope this helps you make the choice.

By the way, just a thing for next time, double texting is bad.


Greetings,
Randomly
Author:  SeductorEur [ Sun Jan 03, 2010 11:25 pm ]
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Thanks for your reply. And about the texting: I knew it was wrong, but sometimes you just keep doing stupid stuff :) . Like the time I met a girl that was so beautiful that I introduced myself twice in 30 seconds lol.
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