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Author:  Chicago [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:47 am ]
Post subject:  Sounds like a pre-flake, what to do?
via facebook

me-
Let's get coffee, lunch, walk around aimlessly, I don't care too much, it's going to be fun to hang out during daylight hours for once =p but before xmas, I leave for boring old lagrange wednesday night, holla

her-
okay. Let me know when

me-
Wednesday at 3, meet me at the Coffee Beanery on 1st, downtown. Dress for an adventure and wear that SPRAY!
=D <---- my excited face, now show me yours...

her-okay I have to make sure I don't have anything to do, text me tomorrow :) (meaning tuesday)

I'm thinking DONT text her at all, possibly call the day of or something along those lines. She probably thinks we're getting coffee but I'm actually taking her for a bike-ride along the river (Spontaneous?). I think I did well in calling the shots, telling her to wear that scent, and letting her know to be excited etc. I'm thinking she is actually still undecided, or possibly changed her mind after the second mail. W/e I do tomorrow will probably determine. Let me know what you gents think-
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:04 am ]
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Damn,I excited for you already yo(lol)!!!

But 1 thing bother me a bit though. The fact that she said to text her. That would definitely raise my pre-flake antennae.

Don't text her-period tomorrow!!! You know that already since you said that also. Call her ass. Give her an escape route,she'll take it(flake). So call her tomorrow. If she's not comfotable,she won't answer the phone. Good thing you suggested the coffee thing and not your crib(lol).

Well,it looks kinda flakey. But if you play it right(call her),and if you did good worked in comfort phase,it should go well.
Author:  Chicago [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:13 am ]
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Yea so Im def gonna call and turn on the barry white voice lol, but im gonna need to time it right (earlier or later is better?) and if she doesn't answer thats that, but if she does, does she need a little PUSH/incentive, does she need reassurance, or do I need to turn on some serious DHV like, w/e I can take someone else before she can even flake out. Thoughts appreciated.
Author:  Track129 [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:34 am ]
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What if you call her and if she doesn't answer you say, "Hey, just confirming I'll see you tomorrow at the Coffee Beanery at 3". Don't even give her the chance for the out. If you say give me a call back and she doesn't call then where are you? If she doesn't show up by 3:15, don't get down on yourself, it's the bitch's loss, just hang out at the Beanery and work your magic on the next HB that walks in. Let it roll off of your back and get back in the saddle again.
Author:  Chicago [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 5:46 am ]
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Good thought on the voice mail, kinda hope she wont answer. And yea, even though its probably not the right mind-set I'm preparing myself to let it roll off my back. Does her answering = not flake? I'm just worried she may need some prodding over the phone and how I should handle that, unless answering means I'm in. I think I fucked up the emails though, I should've sent the info in the second message AFTER an actual confirmation.
Author:  Track129 [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 6:01 am ]
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Stop second guessing yourself and be confident. You are a bad man. You've come this far. You got the number close. She hasn't said no to day 2. Quit worrying.

Leave the message or if she answers, say the same thing.

Expect the best, prepare for the worst. If you have to prod her you're regressing to AFC status. Just tell her where you'll be and when. In fact, you may want to word it like this, "just confirming, I'll be at the Coffee Beanery at 3 tomorrow and I'll see you there". Tell her where you're gonna be, don't push her or prod her to "meet you there". If you have to resort to that then you're putting the power in her hands.

Just do it. Be a man! Quit worrying. Worrying is self destructive to your inner game.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 12:17 pm ]
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Great advice Track129. You cannot give her a leeway or she'd flake out.
Author:  Chicago [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 1:12 am ]
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Just called, got her machine. I tried to go C/F with "I heard you get to hang out with me tomorrow, lucky girl, i'll be there at 3, see ya then" and then I nerded it up and signed off with a 'take it easy' lol but w/e hopefully she lets me know something tonight so i know how clean the pad needs to be lol
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Dec 23, 2009 9:49 am ]
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Nice C&F line but damn,you had to get the machine(lol)!!!? Well I guess its like that.
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