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Author:  bulk [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  3 girls all number closed and all kiss closed. what next?
hey guys, im new to the forum, and looking for advice to up my game. basicaly i have a dilema, theres 3 girls i met on nights out within 2 weeks. the 1st i intimately kiss closed. facebook closed then i numberclosed. she is an 8/10 now we always txt flirt, and we have a date after chrismas when she returns from holiday abroad. the thing i dont get is she always txts me when she's drunk asking me for sex. but then she acts respectable and justs laughs it off , when ever i hint when sober. what should i do with her?

the second i number closed whilst she had a bf. now she's single we'v been on two dates, kiss closed, but i've always gone home, then she texts telling me that i should have gone upstairs with her. but hen she is only after a relationship apparently. and only has sex inside relationships so i dont know what to do here??? shes a 7/10

the 3rd is another 7/10 we'v intimately kiss closed and spent time at her house watching films and drinking vodka. now she's after no strings, but says she aint easy (im thinking its the cat and mouse theory) or she's denying the fact she is a bit of a slag!! we'v only been to her house. but her relatives kept popping in so it was awkward to do anything!!!

so really, im after advice on getting past 1st base and just kissing, should i just jump streight in and think fuck it. the worst that can happen is nothing.? after all im not after a relationship. only casual sex. what would be the best way to accomplish this?

thanks in advance andrew!!
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 11:40 pm ]
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Welcome to the forum- now,business. Chicc #1:I always tell guys this- texting(I love it) is sought of an excape route for women-a fantasy world where they don't have to keep promises,they flake,bullshit,etc. Then when yall do meet,ASD kiccs in(Anti-slut defense)which makes her feel sluty for the things she'd said in text.Basically,keep the sex talk for when you have her isolated where she can't just dismiss as in a text.
For the girl who said you should've came upstairs. You realy fucced that up man!! I can guarantee she gave you subtle cues inviting you up. Women will rarely ever tell you what to do. You as the alpha male should just act and pretend as if its a normal thing(to be foward) and take initiative and go upstairs!! And they will not tell you they just want to fucc which'll make her look slutty so she'll say that she wants a relationship even if she knows in her that she only wants a fucc.

Move hard before they put you in the wuss basket aka harmless basket.
Author:  bulk [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 12:44 pm ]
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hey man. thanks for the advice!! i have a couple more dates lined up with two of the gals. going to be a lot more forward, like you say, more alpha male!! cheers
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 2:19 pm ]
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Go get em Bulk(lol)!
Author:  sinsitive [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 2:23 pm ]
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As far as I could translate, great advice. =)

About the third, she just wants to know she ain't a slut. Make her feel comfortable enough to do it. Make sure she knows you're not just going to do her and leave her like that. Show more interests... you can tell her you'll stay the night, make some breakfast bla bla. Make it more than just a slutty sex-act.

Do comfort building. Doing a girl is quite intense for her.. I mean worst case scenario you may do her without a conny last minute, make her pregnant and leave her with no trail... Of course we honnest gentlemen PUA's won't do that but things like this fly through a girl's head on the last minute before "IGI".

Don't say let's fuck. I never do direct's on this. One that I liked was:

PUA: Wanna see some pics I took last vacation?
She: sure!
PUA: they're upstars, let's go.
*we went to my bedroom, sat on our bed*
PUA: nice pics aye bla bla
She: yeah they're nice.

I have a window above my bed, it was late so I put the pics away when finished...
she looks around a bit
She: nice room!
PUA: yeah I like it, I like my window most... come..
*we lay on our bed, looking at the stars and talk a bit gibberish*

Then we're close, lights HAD to go out because otherwise you can't see the stars... I hear her heart go crazy and then....... we made out, undressed and had sex tull in the morning.


Why did this work? It wasn't a "yeah he said he wanted sex so slutty as I am we did it".

No... She can tell herself she ain't a slut but "From one thing came another..." which is a great way to tell yourself it is OK.



Hope this helps a bit. :)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 3:19 pm ]
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Great lay report Sinsitive;you are a genius in getting her to the crib(via pictures-lol).

That's why I criticize direct game a lot;it's very rare that you can say to a girl,"I want to fucc you,meet me at my crib".She won't comply unless you'v already laid her. Eventhough you'd already laid her,most girls will still feel slutty to comply.

ASD will be activated so a guy must get creative in order to lure the chicc to the pad. Seems devisive but lets put it like this:women love the chase,the unpredictability and all. They love to be led. Leave it up a woman to lead sex,it won't lead to anywhere
Author:  sinsitive [ Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:42 pm ]
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Ur welcome K-Loc. :) It's good to have some excuses ready close to your bed. Like indeed vacation pics, photoshoot pics, some video's you and friends made, a cute pet? (although having sex while Bob the Bunny is watching.... errr), some cool gadget, etc etc etc. Just NEVER EVER say let's fuck... I didnt even do that to my gf I was with 4+ years hehe.
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