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| Author: | Tempest7 [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 12:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Reframing Her |
I'm going on a day 2 with this chick tonight. I'm leaving in a week and want to leave a strong impression on her (F close or kissing + rapport). I got her number at a party where I was getting a lot of female attention and her value for me, based on that, should be high. However, I fear I may be falling into 2 traps. First of all, contributing too much in conversations. Secondly, I haven't been able to break into her highly analytical frame on the phone. How can I put her into a more romantic, adventurous frame, all the while making her more interested in me? I've been letting her talk more (increasingly) over 2 convos, and am now thinking of busting on her a little when we meet up. Maybe a neg as well? My best frame is that of a storyteller (think juggler method) so that won't be enough/fully congruent. I'm also thinking of getting her to qualify. "I like girls who cook." "I like independent women." "I love adventure.. Are you an adventurous person? (possibly + get her to tell me about some cool adventure)" Finally, I could reward her good behaviour with compliments. To summarise, the goal: 1) Shift her from analytical frame 2) Shift myself from entertainer frame Ways to go about it: 1) C+F 2) Neg 3) Get her to qualify, especially as far as being adventurous goes 4) Reward her good behaviour Thoughts? |
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