Hey!
I've been going out with a girl for a couple of weeks now.
She's recently brooke up with a 2-year boyfriend and is a bit scared
of going into a new LTR. Im totally fine with that
.I tried something new with this girl, she was acting a bit weird after we had sex so just went totally honest on her while talking on the phone the day after.
..in convo..
Me: Mind if I ask you something?
Her: Go ahead.
Me: Well, I dont wanne be weird or anything but I like you.
Her: Well, I like you to.
Me: Thats nice. But do you like me as in "I'd like to have sex with him"? Cause
I wanne have sex with you. Im not saying I wanne get married with you. I just like you in that way, and Im not very into planning stuff. I just wanne see were this is going.
Her: Haha.. I wanne have sex with you. But Im really scared of getting into a new relationship.
And now she isnt acting weird anymore.
A part of me says this goes against the principles of the game, not the honesty part, but the still.. If I had done this before we had sex it could have been the last words a said to her.
So I think the key is to establish attraction and comfort so she wants it - before the honesty part kicks in. Or else its a turn-off.
I have been using this before sex to avoid LMR. But since there was no need for it this time, It felt a bit strange to do it afterwards.