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| Author: | d_sharp [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 1:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you make the dif between a friend date or date date |
ok happened to me several times, i've gamed the girl( or so i thought) and when i take her out on the date it seems more laid back and like a friend date? if i dont k close they end up telling friends we r just friends!? wtf ,the dates screwed once she thinks that so i want to make sure that doesn.t happen help out please |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Sat Dec 05, 2009 3:30 pm ] |
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The ideal thing for you would of course be to get her in a more attractedstate when you do your game. If this is happening to you over and over again, you need to read up on how to stay out of the FriendZone. Anyhowe, there is still time for you to create the tention you want, but you need some serious game to do so. When she aggrees to see you on a friend-date use this on her. Do some Push and Pull, get her a bit hot for you, then tell her: "To bad this isnt a REAL date, I might have kissed you.." The weels in her head will start to spin. If your walking and all of a sudden there is romantic view or anything, give her some bedroomeyes and tell her again: "To bad this isnt a real date, dont get any ideas. Im SO not kissing you here" Then by the end of the date (when you hopefully had a great time and you done some kino, push and pull, built comfort) you tell her: "This was a great non-date I've been on this month." Then you kiss her on the left cheek, then on the right.. And if she doesnt move her headback, you go for a REAL one. "You're such a bad girl for making me kiss you, see ya." |
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| Author: | miscr [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 9:59 am ] |
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Where abouts can you read up about staying out of the friendzone? |
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| Author: | Energy_ [ Sun Dec 06, 2009 1:26 pm ] |
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Quote: Where abouts can you read up about staying out of the friendzone?
From "The mystery method"The friendship zone The friend has a very specific connotation in the game. It is someone who fears expressing his romantic intent to a woman he has spent time getting to know. If you fail to convey to a woman that you are a potential romantic interest to her during the comfort stage, she may not be intuitive enough to see that in fact you are one. Not holding her hands, smelling her neck, or kissing her during the comfort stage can trap you in there. In fact, a woman may grow so comfortable with you nonsexual nature that she will prefer you to stay that way. When you finally attempt to move in to the seduction stadge with a woman and you hear her say, "Lets just be friends", you are trapped in the friend zone. You cannot being seduction until you end the comfortstage, but you cannot do that until you have built sufficient comfort and familiarity. And she must be comfortable with your sexuality, too. This occurs when kissing her does not make her feel uncomfortable. When you are alone with her and you begin and you begin the seduction stage,you dont want her to be shocked by your sudden sexual interest. As you avoid the friendship zone like a disease, knot that it is neither wrongful nor a sin to structure an opportunity for a mutual seduction. After all, building a sexual relationship together will benefit her too. |
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| Author: | d_sharp [ Mon Dec 07, 2009 11:15 pm ] |
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thatnks this will help a lot |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Tue Dec 08, 2009 8:29 pm ] |
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I don't do date's as Day2's. Dates to me are more for getting to know the girl. If I kclose a girl on Day1, and we have some real conversation that night, then I'll take her on a date. This alone will help you enough. Escalate before you date. If kino isn't happening on Day1, it will seem awkward on an actual date, as your Day2. I usually have my Day2 as a going out and meeting up type of setting. This helps if there isn't enough escalation on Day1, that way if there is no attraction being built with my initial target, I can use her for social proof and sarge in front of her. Its like killing two birds with one stone, because building attraction with other women will in turn build attraction with your Day2. The reason why your dates put you in the friend zone is because you didn't build enough attraction beforehand. You built enough COMFORT to go on a date. That's all a date takes is COMFORT. If not made unaware, rAFC's will commonly build up enough ATTRACTION to kclose a girl on Day1's but not enough comfort to have a Day2 be an actual date. |
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