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Author:  Blue Dre [ Fri Nov 27, 2009 3:41 am ]
Post subject:  haha.. what now?
So I'm in class (senior in high school). There's this HB8 that I can tell is absolutely CRAZY for me thanks to the body language tips I've been reading on this site. Anyway, I've NEVER hung out with this girl, but her friends have told me she has an obsession for me (I'm fairly good looking and VERY funny in school) and I could kinda tell... I'm thinking I should ask this girl to prom in a few months (well I was planning to TELL her and not ASK, alpha male biotch!)

She's got kinda cute face and beautiful tits.. HB8. Anyway, we're sitting and talking and she's a few seats away from me. I keep staring at her tits and making her self-conscious on purpose.. haha I tell her to move her hair out of the way so I can stare at her cleavage more easily. It's part of my push-pull tactics (which I do A LOT, almost instinctively now) because when she doesn't comply, I just completely ignore her and go back to talking with my friend. I make him laugh, so that kinda ups my value. Then I get back into convo with her. When it's finished, she goes:

"Hey Blue Dre will you take me to prom?" (whoa, this catches me off guard)
"aww maybe, ill think about it...." (i don't say yes bc i want to preserve value and would like to see about other girls).

so. this girl has other guys going NUTS for her trying to get with her everyday, yet all of a sudden SHE asks ME to prom instead of ME asking HER. holy shit I must've been doing something right. plus, prom is in almost 7 MONTHS so idn wtf... i kinda dont wanna be tied to this girl till then. If i go out with her, i no im cheating on her if i can.

The problem is that i've never hung out with her. In fact, since i've been in high school i've been to like 2 parties my whole life (not including vaca's in europe). I suffer from social anxiety although I'm a very funny guy. outside of school i'm very nervous and sweat a lot... inside of school i'm the friggin MAN.

So how the hell do i go about hanging out with this girl? I've never been on a date. I've only hooked up wiht one girl and it was 2 years ago when i was 15. and it was only one hook up. that's as far as i've gone. everyone at my school thinks im a non-virgin. i get extremely nervous when it gets to meeting up outside of school, even with some school friends that are guys. I don't know.

Any tips on closing her? I know i could easily fuck her in a few weeks and I would love to, she's friggen cute with an amazing body, probably an HB9 if u've really got a thing for brunettes with big tits and cute face. Where the hell do i take her? I have no clue where to starttt....
Author:  Z-Wrex [ Fri Nov 27, 2009 4:54 am ]
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This is one of those few occasions where I consider PUA to be the wrong way to go about things. She has asked you to go to prom. That has a bigger impact than you realize, at least in your post. Because society dictates that men be the ones to start things like asking women to big events. She is interested in you, on a level past the physical. Sure, at your level of confidence you could fuck her and be done, but then you end up with a reputation of being a player and an asshole. And that'll make life way too difficult for you. And honestly? If you are convinced you would cheat on a steady girlfriend at the first chance, you got some issue that needs to be dealt with.

That's my personal feeling. If she was just talking about prom it wouldn't have been an issue. But she basically said she is romantically interested, whereas you are just physically interested in her.

If you just wanna hit and run, I suggest you don't try that with this girl. But, if you really want to ignore the rest of what I said *disclaimer* bad idea *disclaimer* then you just have to behave the same way you do in school. You don't have to change anything being in a different setting. Your problem is mental, you are thinking that you are fundamentally a different person outside of your school when you really aren't. People think you're great with women, that's because you ARE! You just freak out in situations where they aren't around. So rather than think you have a jekyll/hide deal happening, just keep your swagger when you walk out the school's doors. She likes you, you have no reason to be nervous.
Author:  antic [ Sun Nov 29, 2009 9:25 am ]
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There is nothing wrong with saying yes in this situation. Why wouldn't you? Just say yeah I would love to go to prom with you. Get her number, ask her to hang out. You could meet up and do the old dinner and movie. Invite her to an event with you. Invite her to your house. It's easy man, she likes you. If you like her than just go for it. Follow your instinct.
Author:  tweeby [ Sun Nov 29, 2009 7:17 pm ]
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Woah,woah woah.

Young man, stop right there. You're thinking about this way too much. I can see you dreaming up shit that hasn't even happened yet. You're talking about fucking her when you haven't even really had a REAL date.

This chick obviously likes you, I don't need to repeat what has already been said in the previous posts.

Just think up something fun you two can do together after school.

you: Hey I heard ______ just opened in town. Sounds like a real hoot, wanna come along. I'll even offer to buy you choc-chip ice cream if ur good. :P

Done.
Author:  Blue Dre [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 4:25 am ]
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Yea I kinda realized now I shouldn't be focusing on just fucking her and that's it... she's a nice girl as far as I know, what am I doing.

Anyway, I should have posted this in the social anxiety section.
The main point I was trying to make was that I have NO CLUE how to get anything done outside of school. I get so damn nervous, even with just non-female friends outside of school. Shit, I've had 2 dates in my whole life and they sucked. That's the problem. Doing anything at all with this girl is a huge step for me. Of course nobody in my school thinks it because they all think I'm some kind of player.. I could be, but I'm too shy to ask a girl out.

It's more of a social anxiety issue here.. I obviously know this girl likes me but the problem is I know I'm going to be too scared to do anything.

The first step would be seeing her outside of school. If I can do that, things will run very smooth and I'll have a very pretty prom date to show off.
Author:  Rawky [ Wed Dec 02, 2009 10:18 pm ]
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Yeah, definitely "practice" dates with her. You're in a good spot because she already likes you. You don't have to try to earn it with a fantastic date. Obviously, you can't be a terrible date but I think you might be able to take her on a couple of different dates and see what works and what doesn't.
Author:  tweeby [ Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:33 pm ]
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You're thinking about it too much again. Forget the prom, forget a couple of weeks down the line. Focus on NOW, the present.
At the moment, I can't see any evidence of you trying to hang out with this girl.
Just do as I say, think of something fun then ask her to go with you. The more you sit thinking about this fantasy the worse it is going to get. Girls don't like guys who sit around in a fantasy world.

Get out there man. Hurry.
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