Here's the deal...
I met a girl through some a girl friend of mine this weekend. Awesome girl...definitely FB/mltr material (let's call her HBwtf).
And here's what happened...
We meet, I'm immediately c/f, making her give me 3 reasons why I should take a shot with her at the pre-game house.
From there, it's on. IOI's within 2 minutes and here we go. We break away from the group, walk to the bar ourselbes, get there, find a back booth and connect for the next 2 hours.
Around 1, her phone starts blowing up with texts and 2 minute later, mid-conversation she gets up and takes off. I'm like, OK, whatever, weird, but I'm clearly in..
One of my boys come up to me right after she left and tells me who she is (background stuff). Turns out her CURRENT boyfriend is this douchebag I went to high school with who goes to my school.
And she just ran off because he had just showed up to the bar (and like I said, he's a douchebag... verbally abusive).
So, I'm walking around the bar, she finds me in another spot, we start flirting again, and her boyfriend comes up to us. We talk for a sec (neither of us saying what is clearly going on). After 30 seconds, I say, "All right, I'll see you guys later (as I squeeze her leg where no one sees)."
I start talking to other people for a little for 10 minutes until she comes out of nowhere, jumps in my lap, and we isolate again.
This goes on for another half hour, until bar closing time, when her boyfriend finds us together in the corner of the bar. He yells at her "we're leaving", she says she doesn't wanna go, this goes on for a minute until I step in and tell the dude, "look, if she doesn't want to go, you can't force her man."
He won't look or acknowledge me, pulls her by the arm, yanks her away. While they're walking away, she runs away from him back to me, he runs back, catches her, pulls her back, they leave.
WTF.
The next morning, I'm chilling with the girl friend of mine who introduced us and she shows me their whole text convo from last night they were having while HBwtf.
The convo was basically HB telling her "I am so into WorkEthic right now." "I have such a creepy crush on WorkEthic right now...I feel bad." "I'm so confused...OMG!."
LOL.
Then, I find out later that day (less than 24 hours from when all this happened) that HBwtf and her boyfriend broke up.
I am gonna give this chick some space for a few days...there's nothing to gain by contacting her this soon after breaking up, and I know I'm in anyways, so I'll wait til Wed or Thurs. (weekend time) to talk to her again.
AND I want to make sure she doesn't get back with douchebag bf. I need some pattern or paragraph-long statement to say to her solidify us, and anchor all the shit she went through with him and her's past.
What should I say?
I was thinking something like, " You know, it's funny how we can get so comfortable in certain situations because we've been there for so long, but because we get too comfortable, we don't even realize how unhappy we are. THEN, something different comes along and it's so great and *freeing* (her word when describing her values) and it lets us know how much better our situations can get, and it just feels so right."
And right as I finish that sentence, I kiss her.
Thoughts?
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