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Author:  zoomzoom [ Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:32 am ]
Post subject:  How Do I Get Rid of CLINGERS? HELP!
Okay didn't really know where to post this, but here it is. (My question is in the second paragraph)

So first of all id like to say thank you to this forum for teaching me so much in the past. I've spent the last year working away at camp to save money. Being as there were no girls i thought id try and learn how to pickup to prepare myself. (btw, yes, a year with only a few women was as horrible as it sounds) Now that im free ive moved to the other side of the world and am living it up. Put the game into practice and failed miserably the first 2 weeks. Rejection after rejection, but as my social skills started improving so did my results with women. It was hard/scary as shit at the beginning, and to be honest still is, dont know if thatll ever go away. But i can now vouch for 10 F-closes in the past 6 weeks. No intention to brag, just very proud of myself. However this is where my problem now lies..

Okay so all 10 of these girls were only 1-3 night stands. All of them knew thats all it was, or so i thought.. I now have about 4 of them id call clingers. Wanting to see me again(which means traveling 1000s of km), have deep conversations i really dont care to have... in other words they didnt get the picture that it was a 1 time thing. So my question is how do i convey that to them without being a complete asshole or a total pussy?
I mean they seem to really like me so i dont want to break her heart, but i mean.. common..
Right now i just avoid them, but that dosnt work out well.

Now dont get me wrong, there are a few HB9's i wouldnt mind seeing again, and probably will, but these 4... are just driving me up the wall.

Thanks for any... 1night stand break up lines you can have... OH! or any morning time i think you should leave now lines... (besides i have to work or get the hell outta my bed.)
Author:  _Illusionist_ [ Sat Nov 07, 2009 9:18 am ]
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I had found myself in exactly the same position a few months ago..
this girl i was seeing for a few weeks had already planned out this huge wedding, house, car..dog etc.. she was a few years older than me - granted.. but she was nuts.
Gorgeous... but totally loopy..

It also helped that lived quite far away :) like yourself zoomzoom..

call her up - and just tell her bluntly "i've found someone else.. i've known her for a long time - im sorry"

but you have to make it clear the girl on the recieving end - that your time with her was special you will never forget it.. just say it, that way; you don't come across as complete scum. (i mean that in the best possible way!)

if you decide to go with this, don't expect any more sex from them..

Good Sargin'!

Illusionist
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Author:  playersway44 [ Tue Nov 10, 2009 9:14 am ]
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how about you forget your clinger problem and share a bit about how you F closed 10 girls in a little over a month haha ;)

cheeers.
Author:  ONEdayATaTIME [ Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:21 pm ]
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If you find a good solution let me know. I'm having similar troubles with a good lay that I don't want to give up...But a good lay I'm not ready to date.
Author:  zoomzoom [ Thu Nov 12, 2009 6:01 am ]
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Yah thats a good strategy Illusionist. Its always the older ones eh. A softening white lie with the brutal but honest truth. I like that, definitely not worried about no more sex. When they get AFC like that, no matter how cute they are its the biggest turn off and makes me want to retreat into the hills.

As for how i did it..?playersway44 come down to thailand and you will see. hahha, women on vacation are there to have fun, and thats what i try to give them. boundaries are down, hormones are up. half the time i dont know because of 1 too many buckets. but the other half, just being CF. push pull, EPM, again buckets, and pushing hard during LMR. Also i dont think my looks hurt the situation any. But i dont believe, in any way, could i ever could pull this off in a cosmopolitan city.

ONEdayATaTIME, i suppose youve got to do the same as i have and just say upfront that your not ready to commit. and risk loosing it if you have the options. You dont want a cook that builds up all these fantasies in their heads. but if you dont have the options then id say just give the old i wanna take it slow cuz i was hurt so bad last time blah blah blah, just make sure she dosnt have any expectations.
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