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| Author: | rivant [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | new girl, went for drinks once, gonna set up another meet |
Ok so this girl I met in university a year a go (never really talked to her much although she is an hb8) started talking to me on facebook randomly and said we should go for a drink, etc. Last week we went out and had a couple drinks at one place, talked, got to know each other better (although we had chatted several times before via text/IM) I ended up showing her a couple tricks I knew which she liked. After those drinks we went to another bar where her friend works and had a couple more drinks and chatted some more, telling stories and shit, we never really stopped talking once. At the end of the night she walked with me to my auto, i drove her back to the bar to meet her friend who was getting off work, she gave me a hug and got out saying we should meet up again, etc. So what Im getting at is I believe if im right (ive been in a relationship the last 5 years and just got out of it about 8 months ago so please bear with me) that I need to capitalize on my next encounter with her and try to draw an attraction. The problem being is how. I felt we had a pretty good connection. Also I havent spoke with her since the morning after our "date" which was 3 days ago. I did this in order to not appear needy or desperate. Keep her guessing kinda thing. Im motivated to do whatever, I just need some help as my skills are rusty. I was gonna ask her out at school, rather then text or phone. EDIT: also, on friday night she texted me at like 3 in the morning. All it said was "waaaakee uppp" she was probably drinking (im in university remember) dont know if it means anything, but thought I should add that in. I didnt respond to the msg btw. |
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| Author: | Chim [ Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:49 pm ] |
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Wouldn't leave it too long before getting another meet otherwise she'll lose interest or think you have, ring her up cos you're going somewhere fun and she can/should come. Was there kino on the previous date? If not you'll definitely want to be escalating this time. |
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| Author: | rivant [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 12:12 am ] |
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in regards to kino, no not really.. there was a bit of touching here and there, but not alot.l She touched my arm a couple times. I touched hers. |
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| Author: | rivant [ Mon Nov 02, 2009 8:28 pm ] |
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K, so I secured a second meeting time, with the direct indication that we would be going for dinner and doing something FUN afterwards. Boys, I need help, how do I get this girl attracted to me. I feel comfortable enough to do whatever with/too her I just need help doing it. Remember, Ive been outta the dating scene for a loooonnng time. Side Note: I havent talked to her since friday morning, and just asked her out again about an hour ago, so theres been about 3 days of us not talking in between. |
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