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Author:  Reminis [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Loss of interest? hmm

Trying see what you guys think before I actually findout.
I added a girl I graduated HS with on Myspace but never talked to her. Maybe a "hi" here n there. Last month I said Hi again and we got into a pretty good convo that lead her getting on myspace daily to chat with me. I got her Number and we talked on phone daily. One week later we go out shopping(first time Ive hung out with her), it went decent.

Over the next two weeks I have gone over her house, On her bed and chilled/watch a movie but never kissed her. She is a Virgin... So I wanted to take it slow. I invited her to me cooking dinner at my house on a friday. Dinner was horrible(lol), we watched 2-3 movies in my room on my bed. We madeout, cuddled and I even got to play with her funbags :twisted:. She actually spent the night with me, But no sex. I didn't want to push sex since 1, Shes a virgin, 2 she was on the rag.

After that day she invited me over her house watch a movie, we just chilled on couch nothing happened and I gave her a little kiss good-bye.
She told me she wanted me go see Saw VI with her on Thursday and I did with her friends. Nothing went down not even a holding of hands because I soppose she didnt want to come off as a slut maybe infront her friends since were not going out. In the Movies as we were watching movie she would grab my hands.

After movies I went my way home she went her way. Ever since then she has distant herself and hasnt called/text me Really. I haven't either. Coming from a daily 1-2 hour text to findout what im doing etc to practically nothing is kinda weird.

What do you guys think is happening? Its been Tough for me to get a feeling what she wants, Im not too used to Virgins lol. She is very shy also.
If this Continues for another day or so I was thinking of just Asking her wtf happened with her, Or I can just not and let it slowly Die out until she comes back.

hmm

Author:  Ash121 [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 4:57 pm ]
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All I can say is don't blame yourself too much mate - some girls are friggin' weird and completely illogical.

Personally I think there's nothing worse than doing absolutely nothing. Hang in there, try your luck again...what's the worst that could happen?

Author:  Incubus69 [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:00 pm ]
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When a girl wants it slow - she wants a solid relationship not sexual based relationship. She's looking more into long term rather than short term benefits. So, maybe she thought you were in a rush to have sex - or maybe she felt like having sex but didn't think it was appropiate so soon. Sometimes when things happen all of a sudden - it's kinda shocking.

I didn't fuck this chick but she and I made out, I ate her our, she sucked me off and such. She cuddled up to me and told me she loved me. Now, this is when she only meet me in two days.

So the same thing goes, is that when a girl get's too close for no particular reason - they start having buyer's remorse. Thinking tom themselves, "Is this guy right for me?" "What if he breaks up with me after having sex!" blah blah blah. HS chicks are sensitive to that shit. So text her after a couple of days of missing you and tell her that you want to be in a relationship and that you liked being with her." This is the key component in telling the girl that you think she's special and adored. Try it out. If it doesn't work out - your refund will be in the mail. LOL!

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