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Author:	D_Haile03 [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:	My three week breakdown...............were did it go wrong
Ok guys I met this HB ON7/8 three weeks ago in college. (Location London) WEEK ONE I made the first move but did not show too much interest. But her IOI was very obvious and she was very much into me. the same day I introduced my self to this girl she came with me to pick up my brother from nursery and we exchanged numbers and all. I did not want her to think I was too interested so I was very laid back about everything and she made all the effort in our contact basically. WEEK TWO She still made the effort but I think she was beginning to get annoyed about how I am treating her. And perhaps felt I wasn’t interested in her the same way because she claimed that i am horrible to her and I never respond to her text quickly enough and that she is the only one that makes the effort for us to hangout. WEEK THREE One of these guys I play football with in college began to talk to her because she was there watching us (me) play. And one day of the week we went to the college gym. Because she wanted to work out and I was basically telling her how and what to do and i move on to other ppl who required my help whilst this same guy is literally following her everywhere. Perhaps I should have showed her interest at that time because she was actuly coming to me many times when i acted like the guy following her dint mean anything to me and helped other girls in the gym how to work out NOW In the past three days the table is turned and now i am making the effort and she is responding to my texts very late. I may have also made the mistake of giving her my fone whilst i was playing football in week two. I am assuming she had checked my text and found 102/108 of dem wer between me and her. Maybe she saw that and felt that she is too important for me to loose and changed the way she acts. WHERE IS IT THAT I WENT WRONG. is it evident to you guys that she is no longer interested? should i move on or should i ask her warg1?

Author:	baloo [ Mon Oct 26, 2009 11:53 pm ]
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the first problem i see with this situation is the time my man, by week two you should have fucked and by week three maybe even established her as a solid booty call. you have the right idea with playing the whole hard to get type of angle because it gives you value but some if not a lot of that value is definitely lost when she's looks at your texts and realizes that over 90% of them are from her so your fault here was two fold 1) that you even let her look at your phone, dude come on think haha 2) that 90% of your texts were from her! you need to diversify your pussy brotha the old adage "dont put all your eggs in one basket" is something you should adhere to at the beginning no doubt you have to be sort of stand offish/hard to get but at the same time once you have her "hooked" and she gives you IOI's your allowed now to start giving those IOI's back, negs and all that are for when you're still in the process of getting her attention and it seems pretty clear that this clear wanted you as early as week one so as soon as it becomes clear you turn off that hard to get kind of mentality and start to build rapport with her, basically this situation was dragged out WAY too long and became way more complicated than it should have been especially since your in college, i'm in college too (in the usa though) and its extremely easy to get laid girl's inhibitions are thrown to the wind when the weekend starts on thursday and dude you need to capitalize on that start gaming other girls too! if she had looked at your phone and seen other girl's texts you'd still have the value but now it's dwindling at best your going to need some serious work to recover this if its even worth it? (she's a 7/8 so probably not) so basically you kinda took too long, did too much negging/ hard to get act and now your flirting with just being some asshole as opposed to some guy who is hard to get but is attainable (which is what you want), personally i'd say fuck it move on learn from your mistakes because they're only mistakes if you repeat them dude but since your in college or whatever you might have a chance to repair this but it's probably not worth your time if she's only a 7 or 8

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