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Author:  Solo1 [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 9:59 am ]
Post subject:  Spark Lost
Dated this HB9 twice and then she stopped txting back. She later told my friend "the spark had just gone". I know what i did wrong - just txt her too much and didnt call. I always get carried away! :evil:

havent heard from heard in ova a week now. Im doing a freeze-out for a week or so..(maybe longer?) How do i reinitaite contact and immediately DHV??(because i obviously DLV txting far too much). Any strategies u guys wud/have used in this situ???

PS. i have already moved on to a HB10 model 8) but am guna use this HB9 to see if I have the ability execute a recovery...
Author:  KCBaller [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:29 pm ]
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This might seem crazy, but try it, might be able to use her as a pivot 8)

Text her and tell her you are really a pick up artist. Explain you kind of "fell" for her a bit and now you are over that and want to be friends. Ask her if she wants to go to the mall and just hang out.

If and when you go to the mall, don't warn her, but run game on other women right in front of her. You'll get a little DHV just from her being with you. AND theres a few bonuses to this:

If she walks away on one of your routines, you can use that as even more DHV explaining to the HB you are gaming that:

"man, I have some Jealous friends;) Please tell me you won't do the same cutie"
Turn it into a joke on her. That will give you even more DHV and some C&F too.

If she is complacent: make a deal and tell her you mill be her wing in return she helps you pick up girls.

If she is impressed: Run pick up on the other chick you sarge first, then Neg her once for "leaving a prize like you" and push-pull into a close.
Author:  Johnny B. [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Spark Lost
Quote:
Dated this HB9 twice and then she stopped txting back. She later told my friend "the spark had just gone". I know what i did wrong - just txt her too much and didnt call. I always get carried away! :evil:

havent heard from heard in ova a week now. Im doing a freeze-out for a week or so..(maybe longer?) How do i reinitaite contact and immediately DHV??(because i obviously DLV txting far too much). Any strategies u guys wud/have used in this situ???

PS. i have already moved on to a HB10 model 8) but am guna use this HB9 to see if I have the ability execute a recovery...
I think you just answered to your own problem here. Like you said, you carried away with the tex messages. When you dont leave " loops " for the girl guestioning " i wonder what he is doing right now " in her own head it would be like santa claus visiting you everyday. When he comes once a year its a anticipated moment. If he however comes to you everyday it wouldnt be so exciting, it would become annoying. So give her a chance of thinking about you with keeping your number of messages low. This builds up your status as beeing " not a needy "- guy who can move on to another girl if she looses you. You can stand on your own two feet without holding her hand. You are an independent person.
Im not saying that dont send her text messages but just pointing out that keep the number of messages low. They are a good way to build up sexual tension.

And answering to your " freeze out " i would say that dont send her another text message before she does. I was once in a same situation then you now before knowing anything about PUA. Well anyway, i didnt send her another message never again before she contacted me 3 months later saying that it she was stupit because she left me and was hoping if i could give her another change...

[ Johnny B ]
Author:  Solo1 [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 10:05 am ]
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right i thought about not txting her back again...but had u already slept with ur girl before she started to flake?(ive had this situ once before but i had already slept with her and build up a small emotional connection so a recovery was easier and she was more likely to txt back whereas her theres no emational connection so i doint see why she d txt me back after a few months..?)

I like the idea of telling her im a PUA but she s in part of my main social circle and im not ready for that to be public news yet!although many have their suspicions!! 8)

How about i flip it on its head...so i never txt her again or call her. But if i see her again i say "I gotta be honest with you, i did get a little schoolboy crush on u after we first had coffee. (explaining the vast amount of txting) But thats definitely passed now, i can imagine how all my txts wud have annoyed the shit out of you! This girls (social proof) doing it to me at the mo, its soooo irritating!ha (laugh about it). Now then lets find you a boyfriend (changing subject quickly), what about him?(pointing to a ramdom guy and starting to walk ova)...no no ur right u cudnt get him....how about him??

And just start to game again after that???
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