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| Author: | Sandow [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 3:26 am ] |
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Not sure what I did wrong or what to do next with this girl who's number I got. Got it on a Friday night when I was part of this big group and had a lot of social proof. My wingman went into a 6 set for a girl then I followed and targeted another girl. They seemed to really like us and I played the 5 lies game with my girl. If I made her lie I told her she had to go to Krishna lunch with me and my friends on Monday (she goes on Wednesday and I thought I made some bonding with her talking about it and how her parents went to it when they went to college here). She seemed all into it and agreed to go. When the bar closed she seemed to hover around me waiting for me to ask her for her number. So I said "I think you owe me your number" and she obliged. I called her on Sunday night to make sure it was still on and she was sick from the flu. There's a possibility she was lying but it seemed believable (it's going around now). On Monday she texted me that she was still sick, not coming to campus, "So sorry! Raincheck?". I texted back: "Yeah some other time. Get some rest and hope you feel better." Didn't hear a thing back from her. Texted her on Friday: "You need to get better." 15 minutes later no response. I text again: "Health wise." No response at all. I don't think I'm over texting her and looking needy. It seems like she is regretting giving me her number but I can't figure out why. My wingman ended up not asking his girl for her # so maybe her friend is influencing her not hang out with me because she is bitter my wingman kind of rejected her? I'm not sure what to learn from this. Maybe I didn't Kino escalate enough (only touched her a little)? I also didn't isolate her and now I see where I could have. But I got her number! I did something right. Any ideas? -what did wrong -what to do |
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| Author: | Zeabra [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 4:43 pm ] |
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Classic case of buyers remorse. |
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| Author: | Storyteller [ Tue Oct 06, 2009 5:24 pm ] |
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I have blurring problems sometimes too if I wait too long. It's easy to forget about whatever connection you had with a person if you haven't been in the same room as them for a while. I had two amazing evenings with this girl about a month ago, and then, as I didn't call for 10 days, she began to slowly ignore my attempts to make contact. If you really want to make it happen, I'd call her. Leave a message reminding her about how much you enjoyed meeting her and ask her out again. You have nothing to lose, only to gain. The only rub is that you can't play any routines or run any games with her right now...unless she answers the phone and agrees to see you. Text messages don't create an emotional connection. Make it happen. Happy Sarging. |
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| Author: | Sandow [ Sat Nov 07, 2009 3:52 pm ] |
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1.) No, I don't think it is a "Classic case of buyer's remorse." That is when you move too fast with a girl and she regrets it because she didn't know you very well and feels like she might be seen as a slut. But I'm sure I did not move to fast with her. 2.) Turns out she might not have been ignoring my texts. My fucking cell phone is messing up my game. I had all these texts in my phone I didn't want to delete and I would delete a few every time when I started to text. But I just figured out that my phone gets full of texts and incoming texts don't get to me. So, It's been a little over a month since I've seen this girl and she is still actually interested in seeing me again and her texts have perfect capitalization and punctuation. I think I've played it, maybe, too cool by waiting so long. I can't really think of anything good to do for day 2. I was thinking lunch on the weekend and then asking her to help me "decorate" my room, like going to the mall to pick out some stuff which easily leads back to my room. What do you think? |
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| Author: | G Wheels [ Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:21 pm ] |
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i agree with whats said above |
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