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| Author: | Molson [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Met off Facebook, supposed to meet today... |
She said she doesn't know when her classes end tonight. I said if we're not busy after 7, we can meet at the school pub. She seemed interested. But the question is, do I text her about it or do I wait for her? This is for tonight, as in a few hours. Need help immediately! |
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| Author: | Exerio [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:45 pm ] |
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Just tell her something funny. E.g: "Remember to bring a carrot for tonight!" |
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| Author: | Molson [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 8:46 pm ] |
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Thanks.. I don't know why these things never cross my mind. |
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| Author: | tarzan15 [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 9:39 pm ] |
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Practice. Give it time, you'll do fine. Come out with a canned opening, and then open her up. Piece of cake dude. You've got this. |
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| Author: | Molson [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 10:36 pm ] |
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Well she couldn't make it. She carpools and her ride has to go to work. I already knew this was a possibility so I'm indifferent. However, because I know this will be something that occurs probably a lot, how do you re-schedule a 'date' or whatever. I haven't texted her back yet. Should I just say, "How about xx on yy?" Or just "maybe another time?" added both have a bit of humour. |
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| Author: | tarzan15 [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 10:45 pm ] |
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Be more confident than that. Play with her and what not... say something like "Man, I'm really busy lately. Next time you conform to my schedule." |
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| Author: | Molson [ Thu Sep 24, 2009 11:41 pm ] |
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That sounds so bossy though? Conform to my schedule! |
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| Author: | abcdef123456 [ Sat Oct 03, 2009 5:05 pm ] |
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Don't chase. You start asking her ''how about xx day?'' or ''maybe another time?'' you will sound too needy. She could have blown you off on purpose for all you know, and could be just testing you or something. Obviously you don't wanna show that you're pissed off about it or make it into a big deal because then she'll know how much you're into her and that will kill attraction. Instead you need to make her work for your attention again somehow. If you haven't told her what you did that night you were meant to meet up, just make up some bullshit story that you went out with someone else, either friends or girls or whoever, and just make up that something crazy happened and let her think that you had fun even though she didn't turn up. |
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| Author: | Molson [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 5:23 am ] |
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I didn't even bother. She lives 45 mins away and I don't even want to deal with it haha. |
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| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 1:51 pm ] |
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WillieB.long has a good point, instead of asking what about "xx day", arrange an activity with someone and tell her, "tag along". This is the best way I know of going. - Exerio |
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| Author: | Conker [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 2:58 pm ] |
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Quote: Don't chase. You start asking her ''how about xx day?'' or ''maybe another time?'' you will sound too needy. She could have blown you off on purpose for all you know, and could be just testing you or something. Obviously you don't wanna show that you're pissed off about it or make it into a big deal because then she'll know how much you're into her and that will kill attraction. Instead you need to make her work for your attention again somehow. If you haven't told her what you did that night you were meant to meet up, just make up some bullshit story that you went out with someone else, either friends or girls or whoever, and just make up that something crazy happened and let her think that you had fun even though she didn't turn up.
Also if you have Facebook, ensure you take lotsa wacky photos and hope she catches them on her newsfeed. Heheh. Also can make status updates to increase the chance of showing up on her newsfeed and tempting her to check out your photos.
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